Message from @Teddy
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The friend btw, invited her to a sleep over but wasnt answering or letting her in the house at 9 pm because she "fell asleep"
And the lake was off limits
Meanwhile im just laying around at home with cabin fever because I didny go out at all the entire summer break
Also my sister just cusses out my mom and refuses to do the chores as soon as my mom tells her to do em and sometimes I have to deal with the aftermath
And by treated better it wasn't my parents it was my grandmother, forgot to clarify. I would say if they where aloud you should of been as well. I know when i went to girl scout camp my sister was allowed to as well (once she was actually a girl scout)
I had the same issues with my sister but i didnt get on them right away either but far sooner then my sister had.
Zang
Idk my mom is just weird and I know for sure she's only letting my sister out and keeping me around because she doesn't wanna do shit herself nor can she handle my dumbass sister
She's also a helicopter parent who's scared of their own shadow
My mom tried to keep it fair, maybe favoring me a bit in some aspects, since my grandma wasnt always nice to me and as my mother puts it she 'saw what my mom(my grandma) did to me(her) when she was younger happening to you(me).' I was quoting her directly but it sounded weird in the sentence.
Ah i was often at home with my grandmother since my mom and dad where both out working. My mom became a bus driver and lunch monitor for out school/school district because it could help her spend a bit more time with us.
Yeah but my mom straight up is just a bitch
im very sorry you have to deal with that
Like she complains about us a lot and says really bad things towards us but this whole permission thing is what really gets to me, like im about to be a whole 17 year old and not only does she still not trust me she fukin expects us to act like adults despite her still babying us
My grandmother was that way. I was literally staying up at her apartment taking care of her after her mastectomy (i was the only one who could as everyone else had a job). I over heard her saying I didnt do much and to my face that she would never vouch for me getting an apartment there dispite the fact i cooked, cleaned, took care of her medical stuff(not gonna get into all of it since im not sure how grossed out you want to be about it), kept her company and in general did far more then she ever gave me credit for.
~~I feel like if i talk about her more i would have to go to the rant area.~~
im still sorry about what your going threw, sounds very sucky.
I feel thats exactly how my mom is
Yeah
Imma just be in my room for the rest of summer, I think im fine with my depression making me sef destructive again
Up until the day that woman died she told us who her favorites are and belove me i was not one of them.
... I feel such a weird mix of mourning, missing her and resentment
Ye
I should stop this is getting very venty
Im disowning my mom as soon as I move out
Yeah
But yeah, I hope you get better and can make it on your own when you move out.
@Mango Gummi I’m 18 and the same shit is going on with me. I’m 19 in July, but I’m forced to do everything my mom wants, I’m not allowed to have a job or I’ll be kicked out, and I have to watch my 2 year old sister all day every day while my asshole twin gets to talk down to me like a dog pretty much protected by my mom, if I say anything back to anyone I’m disrespectful and a liar.
@Cheez OH MAN THE FUCKING JOB I told my parents I wanted to get a job so I could afford my own stuff like art supplies and school fees and my dad hit me with a "Don't worry, you know we'll always pay for your stuff" and my mom is just a nut who's scared I'll be attacked because I'm a "girl" like first of all you can't afford the book I need for my summer assignment so UH idk maybe LET ME GET A JOB?
@Mango Gummi I feel you. I’m being forced to go to college, while my grades have never really been great and somehow my parents get extremely angry when I’m not pulling in all A’s, and they expect me to “pay rent”, when I piss them off, when I have literally no money at all and they pay for my school.
Im 21 personally also Milk Man what are your pronouns i rather not misgender you and I can assume but i prefer not to
^^
He/him
That was my assumption but again not always good to go by them. I really don't care what people call me personally. Agender is i think a/the term?
Aw man I wanna go to the school my friend goes to because they have a great art program and a high acceptance rate, and not to bash on community college students there's nothing wrong with going to community but my mom wont let me go to TXST because I cant defend myself like what do you expect from me if someone shoots up the area or at me? Drop kick the bullet ???
Idk what agender is i know what nonbinary is tho
I’m going to community college, and the one I’m going to is ass. Make sure you do some serious research about any school you go to.
Yeah i know
I have my heart set on 2 unis and 1 art school even tho the art school is in Cali
Like the teachers, their backgrounds, everything. I’ve had 3 teachers that have never taught anything but 2nd to 3rd grade or at all, that make class confusing as hell.
I just dont wanna stay in this musty ass city going to the community college where I don't think it's safer than the Uni I wanna go to just because its closer to home