Message from @Teddy
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i feel shitty and broke
Hi
Hello
Yo
im apparently named after garr creek
my friends call me garr
Hello!
Hi
Hey guys I have a question
Yeah?
you have 2 kids, one being a good kid (1), does all the chores and listens to you and the other kid(2) is one who always gives you a hard time. Lets say kid 1 gets invited by their good friend to a vacation in a condo near the river with responsible adults and they're gonna wear a life jacket and be on tubes when swimming and kid 2 gets invited to a lake to camp out with a crappy friend, who would you give permission to?
Im not a parent myself but I would say the first on that evidence but they/you cant be completely unfair with it because that can make a bad behavioured child worse if they think your favoring one over the other. I suppose it depends how bad the friend is, how safe the lake is and how hard of a time they have been giving you?
Again i'm not a parent, i barely babysit, i'm just a person with a sibling who was worse then i was yet treated better so honestly that alone might skew things.
Go off of that
Cause my friend invited me to the river again this year but last year my mom said no yet let my sister go to this stupid camp
The friend btw, invited her to a sleep over but wasnt answering or letting her in the house at 9 pm because she "fell asleep"
And the lake was off limits
Meanwhile im just laying around at home with cabin fever because I didny go out at all the entire summer break
Also my sister just cusses out my mom and refuses to do the chores as soon as my mom tells her to do em and sometimes I have to deal with the aftermath
And by treated better it wasn't my parents it was my grandmother, forgot to clarify. I would say if they where aloud you should of been as well. I know when i went to girl scout camp my sister was allowed to as well (once she was actually a girl scout)
I had the same issues with my sister but i didnt get on them right away either but far sooner then my sister had.
Zang
Idk my mom is just weird and I know for sure she's only letting my sister out and keeping me around because she doesn't wanna do shit herself nor can she handle my dumbass sister
She's also a helicopter parent who's scared of their own shadow
My mom tried to keep it fair, maybe favoring me a bit in some aspects, since my grandma wasnt always nice to me and as my mother puts it she 'saw what my mom(my grandma) did to me(her) when she was younger happening to you(me).' I was quoting her directly but it sounded weird in the sentence.
Ah i was often at home with my grandmother since my mom and dad where both out working. My mom became a bus driver and lunch monitor for out school/school district because it could help her spend a bit more time with us.
Yeah but my mom straight up is just a bitch
im very sorry you have to deal with that
Like she complains about us a lot and says really bad things towards us but this whole permission thing is what really gets to me, like im about to be a whole 17 year old and not only does she still not trust me she fukin expects us to act like adults despite her still babying us
My grandmother was that way. I was literally staying up at her apartment taking care of her after her mastectomy (i was the only one who could as everyone else had a job). I over heard her saying I didnt do much and to my face that she would never vouch for me getting an apartment there dispite the fact i cooked, cleaned, took care of her medical stuff(not gonna get into all of it since im not sure how grossed out you want to be about it), kept her company and in general did far more then she ever gave me credit for.
~~I feel like if i talk about her more i would have to go to the rant area.~~
im still sorry about what your going threw, sounds very sucky.
I feel thats exactly how my mom is
Yeah
Imma just be in my room for the rest of summer, I think im fine with my depression making me sef destructive again
Up until the day that woman died she told us who her favorites are and belove me i was not one of them.
... I feel such a weird mix of mourning, missing her and resentment
Ye
I should stop this is getting very venty
Im disowning my mom as soon as I move out
Yeah