Message from @Cheez
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Yeah but my mom straight up is just a bitch
im very sorry you have to deal with that
Like she complains about us a lot and says really bad things towards us but this whole permission thing is what really gets to me, like im about to be a whole 17 year old and not only does she still not trust me she fukin expects us to act like adults despite her still babying us
My grandmother was that way. I was literally staying up at her apartment taking care of her after her mastectomy (i was the only one who could as everyone else had a job). I over heard her saying I didnt do much and to my face that she would never vouch for me getting an apartment there dispite the fact i cooked, cleaned, took care of her medical stuff(not gonna get into all of it since im not sure how grossed out you want to be about it), kept her company and in general did far more then she ever gave me credit for.
~~I feel like if i talk about her more i would have to go to the rant area.~~
im still sorry about what your going threw, sounds very sucky.
I feel thats exactly how my mom is
Yeah
Imma just be in my room for the rest of summer, I think im fine with my depression making me sef destructive again
Up until the day that woman died she told us who her favorites are and belove me i was not one of them.
... I feel such a weird mix of mourning, missing her and resentment
Ye
I should stop this is getting very venty
Im disowning my mom as soon as I move out
Yeah
But yeah, I hope you get better and can make it on your own when you move out.
@Mango Gummi I’m 18 and the same shit is going on with me. I’m 19 in July, but I’m forced to do everything my mom wants, I’m not allowed to have a job or I’ll be kicked out, and I have to watch my 2 year old sister all day every day while my asshole twin gets to talk down to me like a dog pretty much protected by my mom, if I say anything back to anyone I’m disrespectful and a liar.
@Cheez OH MAN THE FUCKING JOB I told my parents I wanted to get a job so I could afford my own stuff like art supplies and school fees and my dad hit me with a "Don't worry, you know we'll always pay for your stuff" and my mom is just a nut who's scared I'll be attacked because I'm a "girl" like first of all you can't afford the book I need for my summer assignment so UH idk maybe LET ME GET A JOB?
@Mango Gummi I feel you. I’m being forced to go to college, while my grades have never really been great and somehow my parents get extremely angry when I’m not pulling in all A’s, and they expect me to “pay rent”, when I piss them off, when I have literally no money at all and they pay for my school.
Im 21 personally also Milk Man what are your pronouns i rather not misgender you and I can assume but i prefer not to
He/him
That was my assumption but again not always good to go by them. I really don't care what people call me personally. Agender is i think a/the term?
Aw man I wanna go to the school my friend goes to because they have a great art program and a high acceptance rate, and not to bash on community college students there's nothing wrong with going to community but my mom wont let me go to TXST because I cant defend myself like what do you expect from me if someone shoots up the area or at me? Drop kick the bullet ???
Idk what agender is i know what nonbinary is tho
I’m going to community college, and the one I’m going to is ass. Make sure you do some serious research about any school you go to.
Yeah i know
I have my heart set on 2 unis and 1 art school even tho the art school is in Cali
Like the teachers, their backgrounds, everything. I’ve had 3 teachers that have never taught anything but 2nd to 3rd grade or at all, that make class confusing as hell.
I just dont wanna stay in this musty ass city going to the community college where I don't think it's safer than the Uni I wanna go to just because its closer to home
If you can, I’d get to Cali as soon as possible, get away from your family for a while.
Like I live in a ghetto ass city and my mom wants me to stay here? Hell no
Its nonbinary but like i guess more specific to people who don't care about/feel gender
Of themselves, i very much respect others pronouns
I'm not gonna get too much into the gender stuff cause e h
It's just weird but like you do you Im not gonna be an asshole
@Mango Gummi I hope you can get out of your situation, it sounds like ass. If you ever need anyone to talk to you can message me.
Yeah all im saying is basically don't worry about pronouns for me
Oh okie and ty cheez
If i fuck up anyone's tho please let me know and correct me
I’m just he/him so nothing to worry about here