The moment you get angry with her though then she’s got you

That’s why I think it’s important to speak the truth, but to not get mixed up in defending it against others who disagree

I haven’t forgiven her yet and Ik it better to revel than to submit to your mother if you haven’t forgiven yet

Hm

Idk about better lol I would say it’s understandable for you to rebel though

But since you’re 17, you’re gonna be a man soon. So I’d say you deff sooner than later forgive her so that you can really be a man when the time comes

Bc when someone Rebels it’s because they feel something is wrong that’s why it’s better

Right

I get it bc I’m socially rebellious lol

Agreed. Part of me feels that I shouldn’t bother to forgive her face to face till I can move out, but thats is prob just an excuse

If you rebel out of anger is when it’s wrong

I’ve done that as a teen

Yes it is

I just forgave my mom not long ago & it wasn’t just before I moved out

And I noticed in our arguments I didn’t get angry with her like I used to

Yeah

another question. To whom should you talk about your problems to and to what extent? I feel for the most part people should keep them to themselves but I also see how helpful it is to ask for help from wise people

Another nice one (;

That’s funny I for the most part feel the same way & have to work on this myself

But I think it’s good to find those who you find out enough from to see that they have achieved some result that you want yourself, or are working on

Yeah and as long as you don’t complain. It gets in they gray area when it’s comes to family stuff or stuff doing with another person.

The extent probably depends on how well you know the person

Never complain! Lol esp for men

Oh I think Jesse said that in church today too :D

Yeah he did

Should family problems stay in the family?

It’s harder to do for us women

Oh you’re a girl😂?

Man Jesse said never to go to a woman with your problems 😂 oh well

Not necessarily. Again a balance I’d say. Like you don’t want to tell just anyone family problems but maybe closest friends is okay

That’s true I’m a Christian conservative at least tho <:GWpinkuKittyHeheh:392308492624723973>

😂that’ll have to do ig

Even when I’m sad I like to remember what I do have at least & remain grateful. I think gratitude opens a lot of doors

Things have deff changed in my life though. I can’t remember the last time I complained ! Or that’s just my bad memory

question: i debunked my friends argument on abortion, he said that its ok any time when their born and he would do it himself to stop him from going into financial burden. which is wrong in my opinion cus just cus he cant be bothered to get a job and rather live with his parents at 20, it doesnt give him the right to kill his daughter/son. he took this very negatively and is always angry if i speak to him
so i just blocked him on all social media and dont speak to him irl and left him a message saying once he has contained his anger to message me
was it ok for me to just completely push someone out of my life like that?

Why don’t he just keep his dick in his pants & the dilemma is solved

And ladies keep their legs crossed

So simple

lmao i told him that its his fault if he gets someone pregnant, cus he wont use contraception. and he ignores my advice on just not having sex

Also he shouldn’t have a child if he’s living with parents. And no woman in her right mind would date let alone have a kid with a man like that

@Szayel's Pooppion thanks for your insight btw