Message from @Szayel's Pooppion
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Sup mitch
Wasup friends
Winter is coming!
Check out my question in the “questions for Jesse” I would love to hear what you guys think
I just read it now. That’s a good question you have
Yeah it’s something that I always wonder. I need some poopy head wisdom😂
My mother has a lot of anger too and when I was your age I experienced the same problem. She hated to hear my opinions on things bc they were almost always opposite to hers. I’ve learned now that its best I don’t even bother telling her my opinions, arguing, or anything like that, unless she specifically asks
That’d probably be best for you as well
Lol poopy head wisdom c:
Yeah that’s what I also thought but then I heard Jesse talking about how you need to fight back sometimes
Jesse says you have to understand that they can’t help themselves.
Right that’s true
It’s a balance between the two
If your mom says something out of anger that is completely wrong and you know it, you can tell her the truth, but don’t argue it too far
And I’m afraid to become even weaker by just submitting to her will. Ig if I’m truly strong I can deal with it without letting it pull me in
If she freaks out then let her
Yes
The moment you get angry with her though then she’s got you
That’s why I think it’s important to speak the truth, but to not get mixed up in defending it against others who disagree
I haven’t forgiven her yet and Ik it better to revel than to submit to your mother if you haven’t forgiven yet
Idk about better lol I would say it’s understandable for you to rebel though
But since you’re 17, you’re gonna be a man soon. So I’d say you deff sooner than later forgive her so that you can really be a man when the time comes
Bc when someone Rebels it’s because they feel something is wrong that’s why it’s better
Right
I get it bc I’m socially rebellious lol
Agreed. Part of me feels that I shouldn’t bother to forgive her face to face till I can move out, but thats is prob just an excuse
If you rebel out of anger is when it’s wrong
I’ve done that as a teen
Yes it is
I just forgave my mom not long ago & it wasn’t just before I moved out
And I noticed in our arguments I didn’t get angry with her like I used to
Yeah
another question. To whom should you talk about your problems to and to what extent? I feel for the most part people should keep them to themselves but I also see how helpful it is to ask for help from wise people
Another nice one (;
That’s funny I for the most part feel the same way & have to work on this myself
But I think it’s good to find those who you find out enough from to see that they have achieved some result that you want yourself, or are working on
Yeah and as long as you don’t complain. It gets in they gray area when it’s comes to family stuff or stuff doing with another person.
The extent probably depends on how well you know the person
Never complain! Lol esp for men
Oh I think Jesse said that in church today too :D