Message from @cashd13
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It’s a balance between the two
If your mom says something out of anger that is completely wrong and you know it, you can tell her the truth, but don’t argue it too far
And I’m afraid to become even weaker by just submitting to her will. Ig if I’m truly strong I can deal with it without letting it pull me in
If she freaks out then let her
Yes
The moment you get angry with her though then she’s got you
That’s why I think it’s important to speak the truth, but to not get mixed up in defending it against others who disagree
I haven’t forgiven her yet and Ik it better to revel than to submit to your mother if you haven’t forgiven yet
Hm
Idk about better lol I would say it’s understandable for you to rebel though
But since you’re 17, you’re gonna be a man soon. So I’d say you deff sooner than later forgive her so that you can really be a man when the time comes
Bc when someone Rebels it’s because they feel something is wrong that’s why it’s better
Right
I get it bc I’m socially rebellious lol
Agreed. Part of me feels that I shouldn’t bother to forgive her face to face till I can move out, but thats is prob just an excuse
If you rebel out of anger is when it’s wrong
I’ve done that as a teen
Yes it is
I just forgave my mom not long ago & it wasn’t just before I moved out
And I noticed in our arguments I didn’t get angry with her like I used to
another question. To whom should you talk about your problems to and to what extent? I feel for the most part people should keep them to themselves but I also see how helpful it is to ask for help from wise people
Another nice one (;
That’s funny I for the most part feel the same way & have to work on this myself
But I think it’s good to find those who you find out enough from to see that they have achieved some result that you want yourself, or are working on
Yeah and as long as you don’t complain. It gets in they gray area when it’s comes to family stuff or stuff doing with another person.
The extent probably depends on how well you know the person
Never complain! Lol esp for men
Oh I think Jesse said that in church today too :D
Yeah he did
Should family problems stay in the family?
It’s harder to do for us women
Oh you’re a girl😂?
Man Jesse said never to go to a woman with your problems 😂 oh well
Not necessarily. Again a balance I’d say. Like you don’t want to tell just anyone family problems but maybe closest friends is okay
That’s true I’m a Christian conservative at least tho <:GWpinkuKittyHeheh:392308492624723973>
😂that’ll have to do ig
Even when I’m sad I like to remember what I do have at least & remain grateful. I think gratitude opens a lot of doors
Things have deff changed in my life though. I can’t remember the last time I complained ! Or that’s just my bad memory
question: i debunked my friends argument on abortion, he said that its ok any time when their born and he would do it himself to stop him from going into financial burden. which is wrong in my opinion cus just cus he cant be bothered to get a job and rather live with his parents at 20, it doesnt give him the right to kill his daughter/son. he took this very negatively and is always angry if i speak to him
so i just blocked him on all social media and dont speak to him irl and left him a message saying once he has contained his anger to message me
was it ok for me to just completely push someone out of my life like that?
Why don’t he just keep his dick in his pants & the dilemma is solved