Message from @notaglobe

Discord ID: 629787021107265542


2019-10-04 21:06:06 UTC  

also not aggression

2019-10-04 21:06:08 UTC  

Smacking as a parental technique is unprovoked aggression as the child has not initiated it

2019-10-04 21:06:10 UTC  

for years she'd have been dealing with the reluctance, almost dragging me down the road

2019-10-04 21:06:26 UTC  

> as the child has not initiated it

This is incorrect

2019-10-04 21:06:28 UTC  

the child has initiated it - thats the whole point. its a reaction to an action

2019-10-04 21:06:35 UTC  

> unprovoked aggression
this is incorrect

2019-10-04 21:06:46 UTC  

@notaglobe Have they attacked their parent or someone else? In most cases no

2019-10-04 21:06:57 UTC  

oh, so you can only respond to direct attack?

2019-10-04 21:07:06 UTC  

so when my kid hits me, I can round house them?

2019-10-04 21:07:06 UTC  

Not doing what you are told does not warrant an aggressive response

2019-10-04 21:07:13 UTC  

tell the USA that

2019-10-04 21:07:15 UTC  

unprovoked smacking would do absolutely nothing, in fact it would diminish the power of the act as well as being actual child abuse

2019-10-04 21:07:51 UTC  

We should just ban all violence towards children by parents

2019-10-04 21:07:59 UTC  

it's not violence

2019-10-04 21:08:00 UTC  

its not violence

2019-10-04 21:08:14 UTC  

Yes it is

2019-10-04 21:08:14 UTC  

we disagree on the fundimentals here and you just keep repeating

2019-10-04 21:08:25 UTC  

it's not violence

2019-10-04 21:08:26 UTC  

Smacking someone is violence

2019-10-04 21:08:43 UTC  

Go and smack someone on the street and see what the police say that you have done

2019-10-04 21:08:46 UTC  

words are violence too i guess

2019-10-04 21:08:52 UTC  

No

2019-10-04 21:08:56 UTC  

yes it is

2019-10-04 21:08:58 UTC  

i think we've established that you'd make a terrible parent and raise a selfish, petulant monster too

2019-10-04 21:09:14 UTC  

Only physical contact with the intent to cause harm

2019-10-04 21:09:25 UTC  

there is no intent to cause harm

2019-10-04 21:09:29 UTC  

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2019-10-04 21:09:31 UTC  

Smacking as a parental technique fulfils that

2019-10-04 21:09:34 UTC  

violence is physical harm, I don't think violence in it's broadest sense is inherently wrong, though

2019-10-04 21:09:45 UTC  

there's so much wrong here

2019-10-04 21:09:50 UTC  

You are intending to cause harm as a deterrent to a particular action

2019-10-04 21:09:54 UTC  

no

2019-10-04 21:09:55 UTC  

yeah im going to fuck off and play some more tomb raider

2019-10-04 21:10:09 UTC  

this conversation is groundhogging

2019-10-04 21:10:09 UTC  

if you've ever smacked a child, it's not a hard action

2019-10-04 21:10:21 UTC  

It is still physical harm

2019-10-04 21:10:31 UTC  

no

2019-10-04 21:10:42 UTC  

you don't hit the child to cause pain

2019-10-04 21:10:58 UTC  

It may be more minor then the cane or beatings but it is still using pain as a deterrent

2019-10-04 21:11:10 UTC  

That is simply morally wrong

2019-10-04 21:11:17 UTC  

ok, so when i touch you, is it painful?