Message from @Stephanie
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Does she prioritize marriage and motherhood?
Well if i bring that up she says she wont do it if we had kids
start there and everything else will come into place
We all have to outgrow childish things.
Yeah I just want her to outgrow it
How old she is?
26
Oh
Wtfffff
lol
Nope
like I’m 20 and I never did any of that stuff and I’ve always been geared towards marriage and motherhood
I mean I guess everyone is different
Did you grow up in a stable household
You need to get her to grow up lol
Me? Ehhh kinda but not really
I wasn’t instilled with these ideals
Her mom kicked her out of the house when she was 16 so that doesnt help
Had to go live w her dad
That’s rough but hopefully those situations make you stronger and make you want to be better for your future family
Agreed ^
I’m tryna have 15 kids by 26
Nice
If you show yourself as a strong enough role model with your clean living then she will see how dumb she is being by contrast.
Hopefully
Thats what I’m trying
Lots of people do not grow up in this world we live in. I see it in a lot of my friends too. Im 27
Like all druggies fundamentally are trying to cope with something. If you can show her that she doesn't have to cope with the situation she used to be in then she doesn't have to smoke anymore.
Yeah Ive known that
do you really love her?
or are you just with her because you’ve been with her for so long?
I do love her
okay then you gotta put your foot down and let her know your standards and expectations for her behavior
and make it known you want a future with her
Sounds good
@Pat-MA how long have you two been together?
@Pat-MA Is she redpilled on race, the jq, etc? Is she on board with IE?
@ThisIsChris 3 years and change. @Rick she knows my views and is cool with it but doesnt get into that stuff. But she did make fun of all the Trump protestors after the election calling them babies, hahah
@Pat-MA I see. Pretend you have never dated her and she was being described to you by a friend with the details you are sharing, would you be interested in her?
No, but I am not mentioning all the good things.