Message from @Aviendhe

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2018-08-11 05:20:33 UTC  

@Deleted User Thats fucking brilliant Im saving that

2018-08-11 05:21:11 UTC  

> my single twin sister

Go on.... <:pepe_smug:378719408341909506>

2018-08-11 05:21:22 UTC  

I met a soroity girl in STEM before

2018-08-11 05:21:31 UTC  

she had to repeat a semester

2018-08-11 05:22:04 UTC  

Just think of them as pod people

2018-08-11 05:22:05 UTC  

Elementary ed major still wanting the independence of the 21st century but with all the benefits of traditional gender roles. So a living contradiction.
Love her from a familial standpoint but girl needs to lower her standards

2018-08-11 05:22:07 UTC  

Lol.

2018-08-11 05:22:12 UTC  

Not even kidding

2018-08-11 05:22:19 UTC  

You wouldnt want that lol

2018-08-11 05:22:33 UTC  

>Elementary ed
Is she retarded?

2018-08-11 05:22:41 UTC  

yes. Next question 😛

2018-08-11 05:22:47 UTC  

oh wait

2018-08-11 05:22:52 UTC  

Same rules apply: don't go to sleep near them, don't let even one into a group, and they scream loudly when they find out you aren't one of them

2018-08-11 05:23:05 UTC  

"How to Herd Children: A guide to Elementary Education"

2018-08-11 05:23:10 UTC  

>Wants the freedoms of a liberated woman but also wants chivarly

2018-08-11 05:23:17 UTC  

she needs to be tied down

2018-08-11 05:23:20 UTC  

Nah - Shes not very political, just ignorant.

2018-08-11 05:23:29 UTC  

and used as a baby machine

2018-08-11 05:23:36 UTC  

So not an outspoken SJW. Pretty neutral eye beyond what she wants out of a partner..which of course, is everything

2018-08-11 05:23:48 UTC  

Whereas both my partner and I are like "BRING ON THE PRENUP!!"

2018-08-11 05:23:57 UTC  

as are are both STEM and children of divorce

2018-08-11 05:24:43 UTC  

I couldn't deal with a woman from a divorced home.

2018-08-11 05:26:00 UTC  
2018-08-11 05:26:25 UTC  

at least I have both parents

2018-08-11 05:26:31 UTC  

I wouldnt say I grew up in a divorced home. My parents plodded on until my freshman year of college, and it was financial difficulties that largely sunk them, mostly on my Mom's side and her inability to deal with adult issues. Eventually she regressed and fucked over my dad in divorce court after being a SAHM and flight attendant for 20 years before that.
Only served to fuel my opposition to leftist bullshit.

2018-08-11 05:26:46 UTC  

Annd Im a junior now so

2018-08-11 05:26:47 UTC  

😛

2018-08-11 05:27:45 UTC  

> abusive parents are better than broken homes
<:thronk:441701565607444482>

2018-08-11 05:28:01 UTC  

Neither is good.

2018-08-11 05:28:27 UTC  

@Aviendhe have you burned the bridge with mom

2018-08-11 05:31:48 UTC  

Well...
We dont really speak; just because there is nothing of interest to talk about. She isnt interested in STEM and has a 40 year old Broadcast journalism degree.
Her parents are old guard and old money republicans who have no concept about how the world works, but she runs to them despite them condoning the abuse of her by her brothers while she was young. She is still largely a child of her parents, unable to make autonomous decisions. She just now passed her flight attendant training and is now a flight attendant again. The only difference is the massive alimony checque my dad will now pay UNTIL HE FUCKING DIES from their 25 years in marriage.

So due to this lack of respect, Im about as close to having burned the bridge bar playing the game to suckle tuition money (which is now court ordered anyway). Largely Im independent of her funding for that as well as I worked full time 2 semesters and put anything left over in a Roth IRA.

2018-08-11 05:32:11 UTC  

Also worked through all of HS so built up considerable savings there for college.

2018-08-11 05:32:41 UTC  

Now closer to my Dad than ever tho.

2018-08-11 05:34:03 UTC  

She sounds like less than half an actual person

2018-08-11 05:34:06 UTC  

@Aviendhe so why the fuck does she need alimony for?

2018-08-11 05:34:07 UTC  

When some of those assets during the divorce were claimed by my mother I pursued litigation against her and ended up testifying multiple times against her in court

2018-08-11 05:34:12 UTC  

So

2018-08-11 05:34:13 UTC  

Theres that

2018-08-11 05:34:14 UTC  

😛

2018-08-11 05:34:19 UTC  

I DONT FUCKING KNOW YOU TELL ME.

2018-08-11 05:35:12 UTC  

If alimony has to exist, I believe it should only be with heavy oversight and accountability to simply allow the other spouse to get back on their feet. Immediately ending upon employment and with the recipient having to submit proof of seeking employment.