and being nice to you in a fake kind of over-compensating way

My mom treats me like a baby

because you never forgave them, you're holding it over their heads

yeah you need to break that off

how old are you?

26

yeah you must bro

that fear in your mind

the doubts

that satan dude

that is the enemy

Yes, fear and anxiety

when you put 100% of your trust in Jesus and His promise

there is no fear there is no doubt

not 99% into Jesus

100%

that is faith

and by faith you are saved

you're putting faith in satan

True

by believing the lie

True

that your parents are going to get mad or hurt you or hurt themselves

that forgiveness is a bad thing

satan wants you to believe that forgiveness is bad

he still has his grip on you

you kno right before i did it, i could hear the thoughts man, non stop fear doubts telling me to do ANYTHING else

dont do it now, reconsider, you need to think about this more, etc, etc

and when i did it they didnt like it, and satan wanted me to back down and be like nvm im wrong

I want to throw my parents out of my heart and be completely free. As if they did me no wrong.

Is it okay to want this?

its so clear now

yeah that sounds about right

tell them to their face

theres two parts of it you know, acknowledge their wrongs, and let it go because they didnt know any better

and they might take it the wrong way, mine did

they didnt like it but our relationship now is better than ever

its so much more honest, and those conversations and fights of the past dont have any bearing in my life anymore

if you're scared to stand up to momma, how are you going to stand up to your wife?

My mother tries to control me and so does my dad.

if you're scared of momma how can you preach to people who remind you of her