Message from @dan

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2019-05-14 20:48:54 UTC  

I mean, I see people saying 'the only right women got was the right to have a job', so.. xD

2019-05-14 21:27:17 UTC  

Pretty sure only rich women had the *privilege* of not working. What do you consider feminisms first act?

2019-05-14 23:31:50 UTC  

There's a great deal of feminists who have a problem with social norms, while that does apply to both sexes vaguely

2019-05-14 23:32:15 UTC  

I have a problem with the traditional upbringing that some girls get, as I did

2019-05-14 23:33:06 UTC  

can you elaborate a bit more? ^

2019-05-14 23:33:11 UTC  

im curious

2019-05-14 23:45:31 UTC  

Well, basically the traditional "housewife" upbringing

2019-05-14 23:45:47 UTC  

I have a problem with the amount of difference in the way the two sexes are raised

2019-05-14 23:46:54 UTC  

I have a very orthodox family and through my grandparents I've always been told that I should be a good cook, stay pretty and try to attract a husband

2019-05-14 23:50:06 UTC  

gotchu

2019-05-14 23:50:10 UTC  

im against that

2019-05-14 23:50:33 UTC  

assuming our current society of course

2019-05-14 23:50:44 UTC  

again

2019-05-14 23:50:51 UTC  

a woman may still want to go for that

2019-05-14 23:51:33 UTC  

but again in the traditional way everyone has something to lose

2019-05-14 23:51:59 UTC  

if a woman has to be a good housewife

2019-05-14 23:52:07 UTC  

then the man has to be a good provider

2019-05-14 23:52:55 UTC  

i also have a problem with the difference in how we raise girls and boys

2019-05-14 23:53:23 UTC  

i believe the whole feminist way of dealing with this is laughable

2019-05-14 23:53:37 UTC  

they want to teach boys to be effeminate

2019-05-14 23:54:03 UTC  

what id say we should do is raise both girls and boys to be "men"

2019-05-14 23:54:06 UTC  

to "grow up"

2019-05-14 23:54:46 UTC  

teach them respect, honor and how to be responsable

2019-05-14 23:55:26 UTC  

because although we do kind of do that with boys

2019-05-14 23:55:36 UTC  

sometimes in a toxic way

2019-05-14 23:55:42 UTC  

we never do that with girls

2019-05-14 23:56:07 UTC  

parents cater too much to girls

2019-05-14 23:56:12 UTC  

and thats not always a good thing

2019-05-14 23:56:27 UTC  

the longer you pamper a girl

2019-05-14 23:56:38 UTC  

the longer it will take her to realize how the world actually works

2019-05-14 23:56:52 UTC  

its a scary place

2019-05-14 23:56:56 UTC  

a rough place

2019-05-14 23:57:29 UTC  

maybe this is where all of the entitlement we see in todays society comes from

2019-05-15 09:37:39 UTC  

@leuxd As far as I've seen they celebrate getting the vote for women while, the whole time, ignoring the fact that men didn't have the vote. The Suffragettes were filthy rich terrorists who tried to kill people.

2019-05-15 14:25:38 UTC  

they strongly pushed for total war in 1914, and encouraged a full draft

2019-05-15 14:25:48 UTC  

the white feather campaign

2019-05-15 16:25:43 UTC  

Yep. They also were cited as a reason not to give women the vote. Cue them being labelled heroes by documentaries and school textbooks.

2019-05-15 16:28:23 UTC  

By the way guys. I want to know what you think we should call the channel known as <#523922218200203265> that used to be #general? Does the new name for more? Did the old name make it soubd too casual, or does the new one change the meaning too much?

2019-05-15 17:20:44 UTC  

i think "general"works because "debate" has a serious enough tone, but either one works.

2019-05-16 04:00:43 UTC  

2019-05-16 04:01:24 UTC  

@lurking365 hi there, welcome