No worries @Tyunka . How are you doing, anyway?

I'm good

Hoping that this isn't a server dominated by feminists

It's definitely not. Lol They are welcome to come and debate us, but we've yet to have any take us up on that.

👍

i wouldn't call myself a feminist, but i'm still trying to learn about these issues

That's fine either way @buddingbimbo . It's good that you want to make up your own mind.

Other servers I am on have similar methods for keeping spam and bots out. No worries.

@buddingbimbo i used to call myself a feminist also because I believe in the equality of the genders in front ofc the law. But I don't want to share the same etiquette with the Feminazis

You know, those women who are just bullies and toxic people

(and so called chivalrous men)

I feel you. A lot of people who are pretty egalitarian get sucked into their movement because they get bullied into thinking it's that or nothing and they'll be labelled a sexist of they go off on their own.

@Claudiu (aka CallOfVodka) nice to see another romanian here

hello

Hai :))

hoi

thanks @Men Are Human i'm not sure i'll be able to make my mind up completely but i do want to learn more

i think i do know some people like that @Claudiu (aka CallOfVodka) but some people also seem pretty nice about it

I'm not saying the opposite @buddingbimbo . But there are too many of the toxic ones, and we have to either change our own etiquettes or change theirs, in order to make a gap in between the two.

well how do you make toxic people be nicer @Claudiu (aka CallOfVodka) ?

i seek to distance myself from them tbh

it's a lot of effort to convince people

and you can't do anything to convince them if they have an agneda

@buddingbimbo No worries. You sound like you might be interested in the egalitarian movement, if nothing else. 😃

that makes sense but it's hard to do that if they're your friends @Claudiu (aka CallOfVodka)

what's the egalitarian movement @Men Are Human ?

@buddingbimbo just hang out less with them

lol easy for you to say @Claudiu (aka CallOfVodka)

If it's a group, yes it's harder

@buddingbimbo i personally have only a handful of friends, and I'm quite picky tbh

i get that but i get lonely @Claudiu (aka CallOfVodka)

@buddingbimbo It's basically the MRA movement, but they also look into female issues. That said, it makes them prone to corruption from feminists. However, feminists tend to hate egalitarians because they don't want people to realise that feminism isn't the only option and isn't very equal.

I enjoy being by myself personally @buddingbimbo

Personally, I usually avoid labels - but the future the MRA fights for is actually egalitarian. With equal rights, responsibilities, gender-neutral laws, and 50/50 custody. (etc)

Exactly

Cricket world cup final tied

Going to super over

What does that mean?

Aren't you British?

England tied the finals

Yep, I don't watch cricket