@Kaiser Dion Napoleon May I ask your age?

25

@Kaiser Dion Napoleon Nice. That's around when I got over my social anxiety

so if you're just entering the workforce, save your money. You will absolutely love yourself in the long term, believe me.

@Kaiser Dion Napoleon is it because you're shy or what

At 22 I was getting shot at in the infantry

Even if you don't start out making as much as I did. You'll be able to buy all the nice shit you want after saving for ~2 years.

Listen to this man. Save your damn money. Debt cripple you. Go without if you can

^

@💔Zera💔 I dont think I'm naturally shy, but I certainly have reasons to be wary of people

the absolute worst part of my situation is, I can't act on any ideas I have at all, because I have no money. It takes money to make money, remember that shit. Carve it on your heart.

I know so many people that make more money than me but seem constantly behind. Bad spending habits and the desire to spend their cash on shit that makes them "happy" for about 2 days.

I'll be out of my situation here shortly. Selling my car will take care of it.

I'd rather drive a junker and not stress about a damn credit card balance. lol

@ResolvingParadox13 I wish you the best man. Get out of debt as soon as you can. You are young and you learned a valuable lesson.

@💔Zera💔 you heard my whole story about how I was red pilled right? A big reason that even happened is because I have no ability to socialize in real life

Coltaine has a great video about this kinda of shit, communism for two, but he includes relationships into his premise

@frugalcasper Thank you

Coltaine is a fucking savage, wish he uploaded more

He's great

Red pill stories are the most proper type of story. Including a happy ending, which is lovely.

He drops a nugget here and there, lately quarterly

The greats always are a rare upload

i used to be like that, the way I got over it was by climbing from chitchat with strangers to meeting new ppl

I suppose that is right

What?

Yeah......mine never got a happy ending, I'm still trying to make one

And the odds are heavily stacked

@Kaiser Dion Napoleon Im still going to wish the best of luck man

if you want a book to help increase your ability I'd recommend you to read How to make friends and influence people

Uff

Maye

Mate

There is no increasing your abilities to socialize

You either got it or you dont

That is not true, you can learn the social skills

Given it does not guarantee shit

And if you dont you better get damn good at working around it rather then continuously do something you're not built for

the more you practice the better you get

starting it's the hardest point

The reason a person doesn't have social skills in the first place.......do you know what those are?