Message from @PhysX
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Trucking is literally my only chance
@Kaiser Dion Napoleon May I ask your age?
25
@Kaiser Dion Napoleon Nice. That's around when I got over my social anxiety
so if you're just entering the workforce, save your money. You will absolutely love yourself in the long term, believe me.
@Kaiser Dion Napoleon is it because you're shy or what
At 22 I was getting shot at in the infantry
Even if you don't start out making as much as I did. You'll be able to buy all the nice shit you want after saving for ~2 years.
Listen to this man. Save your damn money. Debt cripple you. Go without if you can
^
@๐Zera๐ I dont think I'm naturally shy, but I certainly have reasons to be wary of people
the absolute worst part of my situation is, I can't act on any ideas I have at all, because I have no money. It takes money to make money, remember that shit. Carve it on your heart.
I know so many people that make more money than me but seem constantly behind. Bad spending habits and the desire to spend their cash on shit that makes them "happy" for about 2 days.
I'll be out of my situation here shortly. Selling my car will take care of it.
I'd rather drive a junker and not stress about a damn credit card balance. lol
@ResolvingParadox13 I wish you the best man. Get out of debt as soon as you can. You are young and you learned a valuable lesson.
@๐Zera๐ you heard my whole story about how I was red pilled right? A big reason that even happened is because I have no ability to socialize in real life
Coltaine has a great video about this kinda of shit, communism for two, but he includes relationships into his premise
@frugalcasper Thank you
Coltaine is a fucking savage, wish he uploaded more
Red pill stories are the most proper type of story. Including a happy ending, which is lovely.
He drops a nugget here and there, lately quarterly
The greats always are a rare upload
i used to be like that, the way I got over it was by climbing from chitchat with strangers to meeting new ppl
I suppose that is right
What?
Yeah......mine never got a happy ending, I'm still trying to make one
And the odds are heavily stacked
@Kaiser Dion Napoleon Im still going to wish the best of luck man
if you want a book to help increase your ability I'd recommend you to read How to make friends and influence people
Uff
Maye
Mate
There is no increasing your abilities to socialize
You either got it or you dont
That is not true, you can learn the social skills
Given it does not guarantee shit
And if you dont you better get damn good at working around it rather then continuously do something you're not built for
the more you practice the better you get
starting it's the hardest point