Message from @ResolvingParadox13

Discord ID: 600383079978369034


2019-07-15 17:44:43 UTC  

Yeah **b0i**

2019-07-15 17:45:09 UTC  

Well, if all goes well and I properly evaluate my girl, we'd marry, have kids, form a loving household, raise the kids with the right values, live the good life. She maintains a feminine frame, me a masculine one. We balance each other out and we love each other to the end of our days.

2019-07-15 17:45:30 UTC  

@poizon until she doesnt

2019-07-15 17:45:33 UTC  

Then you're fucked

2019-07-15 17:45:37 UTC  

50% divorce rate, 80% initiated by the woman

2019-07-15 17:45:40 UTC  

Yeah Not possible rn sorry

2019-07-15 17:45:51 UTC  

Or until I don't... Either of us could screw up

2019-07-15 17:45:57 UTC  

No, let's not play that game. Let's play another game.

2019-07-15 17:45:59 UTC  

I really really hope that you don't get fucked and really do find a NAWALT

2019-07-15 17:45:59 UTC  

But what is it you gain from marriage, the act of marriage that you wouldn’t gain from a monogamous relationship? You can’t say security of a lasting relationship, because we know thats false. I don’t believe a marriage “levels up” the “love” you have for one another.

2019-07-15 17:46:12 UTC  

Have fun dating and enjoying her company in a casual way but dont give her a loaded gun and ask her not to shoot you for cash and prizes

2019-07-15 17:46:21 UTC  

^

2019-07-15 17:46:26 UTC  

Well, in my opinion the point of marriage is for children and spiritual bond

2019-07-15 17:46:40 UTC  

@poizon are you willing to bet 75% of everything you create and earn in your lifetime on a coin toss the results of which you did not get to know until you die or lose?

2019-07-15 17:46:40 UTC  

So you have an outdated religious of it

2019-07-15 17:46:46 UTC  

yes but think about all youre risking by that

2019-07-15 17:47:17 UTC  

@poizon Your 1800's perception of marriage is bullshit. Sorry...

2019-07-15 17:47:32 UTC  

Its like a massive and fairly likely loss vs. a mild gain

2019-07-15 17:47:38 UTC  

How so, is it for the children?

2019-07-15 17:47:54 UTC  

Which I might add, you're at high risk of losing too

2019-07-15 17:48:00 UTC  

I was the kid, it happened to me

2019-07-15 17:48:05 UTC  

And a lot of us here I'm guessing

2019-07-15 17:48:30 UTC  

My father committed suicide because of this.

2019-07-15 17:48:30 UTC  

I can see wanting marriage back in the day maybe. But you know how it is now Poizon

2019-07-15 17:48:39 UTC  

Because marriage is a bond between a man and woman. If both put in the effort, it'll last. I've seen both happy and unhappy couples before.

2019-07-15 17:48:49 UTC  

I was with poizon until he wanted to get married. So nvm lol

2019-07-15 17:49:01 UTC  

Well, no, creating and raising children is probably the most fulfilling act a human animal can perform.

2019-07-15 17:49:01 UTC  

Well, hhh, I'm still undecided

2019-07-15 17:49:03 UTC  

Like I get dating you don't have to be a monk

2019-07-15 17:49:07 UTC  

But marriage is another thing

2019-07-15 17:49:10 UTC  

I think he's just being hypothetical

2019-07-15 17:49:22 UTC  

It's why I'm open to surrogacy.

2019-07-15 17:49:38 UTC  

@poizon go to a homeless shelter and see how many men there are there because of divorce. It was the catalyst for starting my channel

2019-07-15 17:49:38 UTC  

Aren't they barring that off too? (Surrogacy)

2019-07-15 17:49:42 UTC  

But marriage is a business deathtrap.

2019-07-15 17:49:54 UTC  

I see the risks, but life isn't a game or computer program where statistics apply

2019-07-15 17:50:01 UTC  

No, you just have to follow the legal procedure to the letter.

2019-07-15 17:50:11 UTC  

@poizon it absolutely is

2019-07-15 17:50:15 UTC  

Every man's situation is different

2019-07-15 17:50:16 UTC  

@Happy Humble Hermit I've met a lot of these same men sadly. If you can't keep up with alimony you're thrown in the trash

2019-07-15 17:50:30 UTC  

One man's stats won't be mine