Message from @ResolvingParadox13
Discord ID: 600383079978369034
Yeah **b0i**
Well, if all goes well and I properly evaluate my girl, we'd marry, have kids, form a loving household, raise the kids with the right values, live the good life. She maintains a feminine frame, me a masculine one. We balance each other out and we love each other to the end of our days.
@poizon until she doesnt
Then you're fucked
50% divorce rate, 80% initiated by the woman
Yeah Not possible rn sorry
Or until I don't... Either of us could screw up
No, let's not play that game. Let's play another game.
I really really hope that you don't get fucked and really do find a NAWALT
But what is it you gain from marriage, the act of marriage that you wouldn’t gain from a monogamous relationship? You can’t say security of a lasting relationship, because we know thats false. I don’t believe a marriage “levels up” the “love” you have for one another.
Have fun dating and enjoying her company in a casual way but dont give her a loaded gun and ask her not to shoot you for cash and prizes
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Well, in my opinion the point of marriage is for children and spiritual bond
@poizon are you willing to bet 75% of everything you create and earn in your lifetime on a coin toss the results of which you did not get to know until you die or lose?
So you have an outdated religious of it
yes but think about all youre risking by that
@poizon Your 1800's perception of marriage is bullshit. Sorry...
Its like a massive and fairly likely loss vs. a mild gain
How so, is it for the children?
Which I might add, you're at high risk of losing too
And a lot of us here I'm guessing
My father committed suicide because of this.
I can see wanting marriage back in the day maybe. But you know how it is now Poizon
Because marriage is a bond between a man and woman. If both put in the effort, it'll last. I've seen both happy and unhappy couples before.
I was with poizon until he wanted to get married. So nvm lol
Well, no, creating and raising children is probably the most fulfilling act a human animal can perform.
Well, hhh, I'm still undecided
Like I get dating you don't have to be a monk
But marriage is another thing
I think he's just being hypothetical
It's why I'm open to surrogacy.
@poizon go to a homeless shelter and see how many men there are there because of divorce. It was the catalyst for starting my channel
Aren't they barring that off too? (Surrogacy)
But marriage is a business deathtrap.
I see the risks, but life isn't a game or computer program where statistics apply
No, you just have to follow the legal procedure to the letter.
Every man's situation is different
@Happy Humble Hermit I've met a lot of these same men sadly. If you can't keep up with alimony you're thrown in the trash
One man's stats won't be mine