Message from @Xychotic
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Especially given my environment
But I dont think a man should ever get married today
No matter the woman
Yeah I don't think he's saying he will get married
@Happy Humble Hermit I agree.
For the record I like the discourse poizon is having with us
I agree that marriage is mostly illogical, but I flip back and forth as to whether or not I want to do it
Thanks Yuri :)
Sometimes there is too much paranoia in these parts
I just don't see what you'd get from marriage
What does marriage even mean anymore
People have to realize that marriage, as it exists today, is not a vow to love and hold, it is a business partnership based on emotion where one party gets to rip the other apart on a whim.
Yeah **b0i**
Well, if all goes well and I properly evaluate my girl, we'd marry, have kids, form a loving household, raise the kids with the right values, live the good life. She maintains a feminine frame, me a masculine one. We balance each other out and we love each other to the end of our days.
@poizon until she doesnt
Then you're fucked
50% divorce rate, 80% initiated by the woman
Yeah Not possible rn sorry
Or until I don't... Either of us could screw up
I really really hope that you don't get fucked and really do find a NAWALT
But what is it you gain from marriage, the act of marriage that you wouldn’t gain from a monogamous relationship? You can’t say security of a lasting relationship, because we know thats false. I don’t believe a marriage “levels up” the “love” you have for one another.
Have fun dating and enjoying her company in a casual way but dont give her a loaded gun and ask her not to shoot you for cash and prizes
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Well, in my opinion the point of marriage is for children and spiritual bond
@poizon are you willing to bet 75% of everything you create and earn in your lifetime on a coin toss the results of which you did not get to know until you die or lose?
So you have an outdated religious of it
yes but think about all youre risking by that
@poizon Your 1800's perception of marriage is bullshit. Sorry...
Its like a massive and fairly likely loss vs. a mild gain
How so, is it for the children?
Which I might add, you're at high risk of losing too
I was the kid, it happened to me
And a lot of us here I'm guessing
My father committed suicide because of this.
I can see wanting marriage back in the day maybe. But you know how it is now Poizon
Because marriage is a bond between a man and woman. If both put in the effort, it'll last. I've seen both happy and unhappy couples before.
I was with poizon until he wanted to get married. So nvm lol
Well, no, creating and raising children is probably the most fulfilling act a human animal can perform.
Well, hhh, I'm still undecided