a large percentage of the MGTOW community is here because they thought they found a NAWALT too

I trust my ability to properly judge a woman.

Well I hope for your sake its a good woman

If the latter than the fear of rape accusation is merely a possibility that many of us have entertained.

I'm leaning towards poizon's stance

False prosecution is not something I’d like to go through

Well Pvt. She is a good woman but as to whether or not she's marriage material is why I'm in the courtship process.

Especially given my environment

But I dont think a man should ever get married today

@poizon you are a romantic and a fool

No matter the woman

Yeah I don't think he's saying he will get married

@Happy Humble Hermit I agree.

For the record I like the discourse poizon is having with us

I agree that marriage is mostly illogical, but I flip back and forth as to whether or not I want to do it

Thanks Yuri :)

Sometimes there is too much paranoia in these parts

I just don't see what you'd get from marriage

What does marriage even mean anymore

People have to realize that marriage, as it exists today, is not a vow to love and hold, it is a business partnership based on emotion where one party gets to rip the other apart on a whim.

Yeah **b0i**

Well, if all goes well and I properly evaluate my girl, we'd marry, have kids, form a loving household, raise the kids with the right values, live the good life. She maintains a feminine frame, me a masculine one. We balance each other out and we love each other to the end of our days.

@poizon until she doesnt

Then you're fucked

50% divorce rate, 80% initiated by the woman

Yeah Not possible rn sorry

Or until I don't... Either of us could screw up

No, let's not play that game. Let's play another game.

I really really hope that you don't get fucked and really do find a NAWALT

But what is it you gain from marriage, the act of marriage that you wouldn’t gain from a monogamous relationship? You can’t say security of a lasting relationship, because we know thats false. I don’t believe a marriage “levels up” the “love” you have for one another.

Have fun dating and enjoying her company in a casual way but dont give her a loaded gun and ask her not to shoot you for cash and prizes

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Well, in my opinion the point of marriage is for children and spiritual bond

@poizon are you willing to bet 75% of everything you create and earn in your lifetime on a coin toss the results of which you did not get to know until you die or lose?

So you have an outdated religious of it

yes but think about all youre risking by that

@poizon Your 1800's perception of marriage is bullshit. Sorry...

Its like a massive and fairly likely loss vs. a mild gain

How so, is it for the children?

Which I might add, you're at high risk of losing too

I was the kid, it happened to me