Message from @tubby

Discord ID: 447375418287325205


2018-05-19 12:23:57 UTC  

Crying is human, men would do well to remember that.

2018-05-19 12:24:19 UTC  

What is important is that you find what makes you sad and, isolate the problem and deal with it

2018-05-19 12:24:40 UTC  

Rejection hurts for both sides too.

2018-05-19 12:25:08 UTC  

And it's a myth that it doesn't happen to women too, because it does.

2018-05-19 12:25:19 UTC  

100% I would argue the power dynamic on online dating makes it easier for women to hack rejection. But that is pointless 'muh gendah has it worse'

2018-05-19 12:25:25 UTC  

social isolation

2018-05-19 12:25:33 UTC  

Time to get social

2018-05-19 12:25:34 UTC  

that is my problem

2018-05-19 12:26:24 UTC  

You really do. You have to put yourself out there to have a chance. You miss 100% of the shots you never take and all that.

2018-05-19 12:26:39 UTC  

I have no place to start

2018-05-19 12:26:42 UTC  

legit none

2018-05-19 12:27:05 UTC  

You do though. You're here, talking to us, that's a start.

2018-05-19 12:27:19 UTC  

You know what bois. I've posted on r/nice guys and shit before trying to help some dudes out. It stings to hear this stuff. There's dudes struggling in silence all over. You only hear of it online.

2018-05-19 12:28:55 UTC  

This is why trp appeals. Appeals to the hurt. Bullshit like the blue pill and r/nice guys makes me seath. Ripping into all these hurt guys.

2018-05-19 12:28:58 UTC  

What hobbies do you have @Donut Steel Tendies

2018-05-19 12:29:31 UTC  

Being social is a matter of putting yourself out there.

2018-05-19 12:29:38 UTC  

I'm into cars, vidya, 3D modeling and doing random shit

2018-05-19 12:29:49 UTC  

There's a couple options you have.

Societies
Day game
night game
Clubs
colunterring

2018-05-19 12:29:59 UTC  

*volunteering

2018-05-19 12:30:05 UTC  

niiiiice, man I love cars too

2018-05-19 12:30:11 UTC  

saving up for a fiesta st as we speak

2018-05-19 12:30:24 UTC  

I'm selling my MX5 for an SLK merc

2018-05-19 12:30:44 UTC  

if everything goes to plan I'll be building that bad boy up

2018-05-19 12:31:00 UTC  

also what do you mean by night/day game?

2018-05-19 12:31:20 UTC  

solid upgrade. Are you talking remap/turbo/induction kit/ exhaust system ect.?

2018-05-19 12:32:03 UTC  

Not sure. I'm not a huge fan of aftermarket exhaust systems, so probably a nice turbo kit

2018-05-19 12:32:16 UTC  

definitely shortshifter and bucket seats

2018-05-19 12:32:27 UTC  

yeah bucket seats all the way

2018-05-19 12:32:41 UTC  

what vdeo games are you into?

2018-05-19 12:33:12 UTC  

racing, RPGs, sometimes srategy and space sims

2018-05-19 12:33:25 UTC  

thsis is what I'm going for

2018-05-19 12:33:34 UTC  

Nice

2018-05-19 12:33:39 UTC  

I have a thing for convertibles

2018-05-19 12:33:48 UTC  

For the possy xD

2018-05-19 12:33:52 UTC  

*poosy

2018-05-19 12:34:07 UTC  

needs a spoiler ;P

2018-05-19 12:35:11 UTC  

Do it for yourself, not the pussy, though. Self improvement is for you. It benefits other people but you aren't doing it for other people.

2018-05-19 12:36:03 UTC  

Hard concept to internalise. Most motherfuckers want a girl. Only natural. Getting a girl is the end goal, direct proxy of improvement

2018-05-19 12:36:25 UTC  

I got to go bois and revise, catch you later

2018-05-19 12:36:50 UTC  

I never wanted a car jsut to get girls