Message from @Lou

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2020-04-03 21:18:31 UTC  

That's genetics mate.

2020-04-03 21:19:14 UTC  

Which ever one is dominant is the gender unless the genetics are even wacker

2020-04-03 21:22:13 UTC  

but why??? I cant understand why god let these mistakes happen (my english is horrible sorry)

2020-04-03 21:23:44 UTC  

God doesn't make mistakes, therefore, people who are stuck in their situation only have themselves to blame through no fault of their own, because God, and stuff.

2020-04-03 21:23:51 UTC  

That sums up how Christianity is practiced

2020-04-03 21:24:12 UTC  

Nononono not how the genetic issues work

2020-04-03 21:25:59 UTC  

a baby can't choose his genetic issues right? it cant be his fault

2020-04-03 21:26:35 UTC  

See the mistakes are sort of like how God let's things like cancer or birth defects happen. When sin entered into humanity so did things like disease and defects

2020-04-03 21:29:17 UTC  

This is how things like that are made. It could also be a test to people, or to show his glory some how like the man who had been blind for all his life. Seems cruel but without it the man would've been in a whole different life sceme without God and the diciples would not of seen this act and it wouldn't be recorded for us

2020-04-03 21:30:54 UTC  

So if I understand, God let genetics issues happen for the same reasons that he let us make sins

2020-04-03 21:30:55 UTC  

GG @Lou, you just advanced to level 1!

2020-04-03 21:32:29 UTC  

Yeah sin was made by our free will but with the sin all of the disease and genetic issues were brought upon us

2020-04-03 21:33:58 UTC  

Well sin wasn't made by our free will but we chose it

2020-04-03 21:34:51 UTC  

yeah if we cant be bad we cant be good, that make sense

2020-04-03 21:35:03 UTC  

Well Eve chose to commit it a and her decendants, meaning us, were cursed by it

2020-04-03 21:36:44 UTC  

its like love, if love exist its because we choose to love

2020-04-03 21:37:41 UTC  

so we can choose to not love

2020-04-03 21:39:18 UTC  

Well yes, yeah that's a way to put it. God set marage and gender up when he made us. We can choose not to love and that's fine

2020-04-03 21:41:57 UTC  

but, why I have some issues with my gender since I have 5 years old
did I make mistake? every things is my fault?

2020-04-03 21:42:57 UTC  

No it's not your fault. Did you get a genetic gender defect?

2020-04-03 21:45:09 UTC  

not really, I just had a very early puberty. maybe it's one of the reasons.

2020-04-03 21:50:18 UTC  

but what do you mean by genetic gender defects, something like a women with a lot of testosterone and a men voice?

2020-04-03 21:52:57 UTC  

But just imagine where things would be if Adam and Eve left that tree alone.

2020-04-03 21:53:46 UTC  

Sorry had t to eat

2020-04-03 21:53:46 UTC  

GG @Svea Rike, you just advanced to level 11!

2020-04-03 21:54:09 UTC  

don't worry 😄

2020-04-03 21:54:09 UTC  

GG @Lou, you just advanced to level 2!

2020-04-03 21:55:21 UTC  

Gender defects basically means the whole spectrum. Like what you said is 1 to having different parts and many other things.

2020-04-03 21:56:28 UTC  

So the early puberty what made you have issues?

2020-04-03 21:57:42 UTC  

actually, when i was 6 years old I sometimes cry a whole night just because of my body

2020-04-03 21:58:04 UTC  

What gender are you biologically

2020-04-03 21:58:10 UTC  

male

2020-04-03 21:58:49 UTC  

and Im currently in transition

2020-04-03 21:59:22 UTC  

So what made you self conscious about yourself? Had puberty affected you at that time?

2020-04-03 22:03:29 UTC  

I always hated the thing that I was a boy, but when my puberty start (at 9 years old) I was destroy inside because I saw me become a men.

2020-04-03 22:04:16 UTC  

Oh I see. So what did you not like about being a boy?

2020-04-03 22:12:51 UTC  

I can't answer properly because I also don't know why, but I can say that I was seeing me like a girl and don't recognise me as boy, in my dream I was a normal girl, and I had a behaviour pretty girly, all my friends was girl...
and I also can say that see me as a boy with a boy body made me sick, I was depressed and i was in bad things like scarification to compensate.

2020-04-03 22:13:27 UTC  

(I really have to improve my english XD, its so hard to learn a language)

2020-04-03 22:20:51 UTC  

Your English is good just some grammar lol. So if I may ask how old are you? With a decision like this it impacts you for your life. There is a thing in puberty where because of the increase in male hormones, the female hormones increase as well, but that seems unlikely in your case since this started before puberty.

2020-04-03 22:22:33 UTC  

I came out when as was 14 but now Im 17

2020-04-03 22:25:23 UTC  

yeah of course I dont wanna be like these trans people who regret their transition