Message from @Lil Alien Nibba

Discord ID: 581234468053057536


2019-05-23 21:34:59 UTC  

I believe in the psychology behind dysphoria, and personally I do believe that includes non-binary, a lot of transmeds don't, though

2019-05-23 21:35:17 UTC  

but dysphoria is the *point* in *being* trans, yes

2019-05-23 21:35:42 UTC  

eh

2019-05-23 21:35:46 UTC  

i won't debate you on it

2019-05-23 21:35:53 UTC  

mental illness here

2019-05-23 21:35:56 UTC  

that's fair ^^

2019-05-23 21:36:00 UTC  

You are either one or the other you can’t be neither lmao

2019-05-23 21:36:03 UTC  

the whole dysphoria debate is itself tearing the community apart

2019-05-23 21:36:09 UTC  

I agree

2019-05-23 21:36:09 UTC  

GG @bensharpies, you just advanced to level 1!

2019-05-23 21:36:20 UTC  

i see it that you really ought to just let people identify and use whatever pronouns they wish

2019-05-23 21:36:33 UTC  

like even if you disagree you still should respect their choice

2019-05-23 21:36:41 UTC  

because what damage does it cause to you

2019-05-23 21:36:51 UTC  

nope

2019-05-23 21:37:03 UTC  

There shouldn’t be any prosecution for those who don’t agree to those pronouns they wish to be called though

2019-05-23 21:37:10 UTC  

i identify as a dinosaur

2019-05-23 21:37:21 UTC  

I identify as a helicopter

2019-05-23 21:37:24 UTC  

What type 🤤

2019-05-23 21:37:34 UTC  

to a degree I agree, however when it gets to be "you can be whatever you want as long as you believe!" quickly gets into appropriation of a mental illness territory

2019-05-23 21:38:08 UTC  

uh no because you identify as a dinosaur are you really a dinosaur? no

2019-05-23 21:38:15 UTC  

The whole pronouns thing is so stupid to me like they/them WHAT?

2019-05-23 21:38:16 UTC  

GG @Lil Alien Nibba, you just advanced to level 1!

2019-05-23 21:38:19 UTC  

treating a non-dysphoric with transition will give them backwards dysphoria

2019-05-23 21:38:47 UTC  

you wouldn't treat a non-depressed person with antidepressants, that will mess up their already okay brain

2019-05-23 21:39:17 UTC  

i mean if someone is just experimenting they won't immediately start hormones or anything like that

2019-05-23 21:39:34 UTC  

exploration is totally awesome and good, yeah

2019-05-23 21:39:36 UTC  

and again using someone's preferred name and pronouns can sort of show them whether or not they are trans

2019-05-23 21:39:39 UTC  

if you get what i mean?

2019-05-23 21:39:46 UTC  

I get that 100%

2019-05-23 21:39:55 UTC  

introducing hormones doesn't change your gender

2019-05-23 21:39:57 UTC  

like they might feel uncomfortable with it, but if you never use it they'll never know

2019-05-23 21:40:26 UTC  

introducing hormones does not change your gender, trans men are men and trans women are women no matter if they start hrt or not

2019-05-23 21:40:34 UTC  

@Darman you can change your secondary sex characteristics, so that others will read you as that gender in public

2019-05-23 21:41:22 UTC  

yes, but scientifically they are their biological gender

2019-05-23 21:41:27 UTC  

of course

2019-05-23 21:42:07 UTC  

:/

2019-05-23 21:42:12 UTC  

you mean sex? @Darman

2019-05-23 21:42:26 UTC  

I'm never going to grab someone by the neck saying "you better watch it or you'll go home in an ambulence" for calling me a girl though

2019-05-23 21:42:31 UTC  

sex and gender correlate with each other or meaning they are the same

2019-05-23 21:43:14 UTC  

gender and sex are the same thing

2019-05-23 21:43:26 UTC  

that's actually kind of debatable