JustDestiny finds a way of making it extra funny. These girls I swear though... ESPECIALLY these 9 year olds on musically..

https://youtu.be/vy4aWEJj2p0

the cringe here is how this is being normalized and accepted

I don't know, question is what's up with the parents. Like obviously here in SA we aren't allowed to beat the living out of our kids and if she's doing this with her body that means she's smart enough to put me in jail. Best make her run a marathon around Union buildings for 36 hours.

Scary shit really... the influences and tolerances of society today, this really is degeneration... I dont know what else to say about this. Kids are being treated like adults, while adults are being treated like kids. Everything is literally going backwards, and this is called progressive.

Scary shit indeed. It'll also be awkward I can imagine. That's sad. It's only becoming worse and I only really fear the amount of pedos being on the lookout. It's terribly hard to discipline kids that think like adults. I've seen it with my friend, he beat the crap out of his 13 year old daughter and she got him arrested, but has since dropped the charges.

Have you seen the pedos on YouTube actually come out and admit they are pedos? Like they literally argue in favour of making it legal, and pushing it as a sexuality wanting it to fall under the LGBT platform... And then there are lectures, once watched a TedX lecture on how society needs to become tolerant of this.

Also, really shitty that one cannot discipline their children with boundaries anymore. Boundaries cannot be recognised without the appropriate punishment, and thus we see kids pushing boundaries much further than they should. Then some wonder why children turn out to be such absolute degenerates. 😑

If I were a girl I'd get that shit beaten out of me

"retarded version of Eminem" lmfao. I concur.

I've had the shit beaten out of me as a lad, totally grateful for it today, I don't know anyone who isn't, especially when you see how kids behave these days, you can't help but be thankful for not being so cringe.

Even has me thinking, I think bullying also has a positive effect on the long run, I still remember back when I had Facebook and looking up old school colleagues, those that were bullied turned out fairly good in comparison to today's commie degenerates.

This, I'm honestly a better person for not getting spared the rod

Yeah, it's an absolute mess. Parents nowadays buy the children's love with all these gadgets, they no longer have to earn them. I had to do the garden for the entire six months just to get a PS2 and if it would wind up looking like Darth Vader took a crap on it then I'd lose those six months. Lol my mom would actually tell me to go choose my stick from one of the trees outside and whip me like mad. That has paid off. Now it's like morals as well have gone out the window.

And the sad part of all this, is not that it's so much our failure really, seeing as our hands are tied behind our backs and treated like kids, as if we don't know what's good for us and our children.

The more I see society stray from reason, the more I believe a point will be reached where we just go our own way and just create our own societies, I just cannot see myself entertain entertain this shit for very long, I'm surprised at just how tolerant I am, and others like us, but I don't think I can keep this up much longer, just waiting for when the moment is right, when everyone reaches the same conclusion. An inch was offered and it will go for miles, it will never end until a boundary is enforced.

Will see how things unfold, already looks like it won't be long from now.

To be honest, I think it also starts from just the type of person you meet and Start a relationship with. IMO, a lot of us are so focused on "that saucy lookin' lady" or that "wealth of a hunk." That's where we first get it wrong. You come across a lethal looking lady and already you've planned out even the entire wedding in your mind. That shit is intense and scary. We then end up with partners that give us houses in stead of a home. My mom told me rather take your time to find a woman who will give you a home and not a house. So that's one thing to factor as to how our kids end up. There are quite a number of families that somehow just get it right and those kids don't wind up being slay queens or fuckboys but just decent human beings with reasoning. There's no cookbook for raising children the right way and each one of us has our own perceptions about raising children and we're all probably going to do it differently. But if you really just follow society you'll end up hitting a roadblock with parenting. It's true, we are eventually going to all surrender the pathetic values and maybe policies put out there and just start to do what we deem is necessary and correct, no doubt there..

It's true that, it's very much materialistic these days, and not idealistic. A house is material, a home is an ideal, it's an idea at its core.

Same with how we choose partners, based on materialistic desires instead of ideals, of which much of it can also just be misunderstood too. For example, where some men desire a good looking woman that's pleasing to the eye which is materialistic, something like status like a model, others thoughtfully look for a healthy partner, and healthy tends to be naturally good looking as well, but is ideal. I myself have a tendency to form relationships with healthy partners, and I'm always criticised for only caring about looks, which is not true really. I don't date lazy models that starve themselves and cake their faces with make up, I date active and adventurous women, and of course they are going to be fit and good looking. There's a huge difference, but yeah, easily misunderstood.

But you make a good point there regarding the materialistic nature, it's so base, so primitive, so backwards and regressive.

I don't quite agree though about the whole raising children differently. Consistency is logical, if you want order and cohesion, you need consistency, and common understanding goes a long way to cultivate that consistency. All children should grow up in a home, and have both parents, along with that they need a mother and a father, they need both feminine and masculine principles in order to individuate themselves, to harness their emotions and learn to reason with it. There actually is a guide to raising children, people are just convinced that there isn't, so that they can be told instead how to raise their children, and the fruits there of, we witness today. This has always kind of been the purpose of culture and tradition of you think about it, cultivation of that shared and common understanding to create consistency.

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Just realised the wall of text that turned out to be lol

You should write a book 😩 👌 @Sheamus

@Dusk lol, I sometimes do contemplate it to be honest, but I lack the motivation really.

Lol you've written a book on discord. Which I guess is a good thing. There are 300+ people here (I'm just estimating) and you never really know that one person who's touched by that book.

I just honestly think that there are so many things to look for in a relationship and looks should be the least one on your mind. I really do agree with you and hahaha hahaha I see you love your women fresh and healthy😎 , hahaha not judging at all😇. Here's a scenario; you find a seriously good looking woman (I'm toning it down with description of good looking women using my hyperboles😅) and you get her pregnant. Other women tend to gain weight and in some miraculous cases if she's having a boy might end even end up looking ugly. It's obviously up to her to work on getting her "usual" health back but they could also just decide to stay that way and like that, that sexiness wears thin. Point is, all the looks she has can change depending on the circumstances and then one starts to realize that there's no longer nothing special about her. Same goes for guys as well, not only restricting this to women.

About raising children, yes there are values like consistency and certain principles that still play a huge role, be it with a single mom or with both parents; something could go terribly wrong, it isn't always right. There are families that have done basically everything right, have given that child a home, tried to even be active in their lives and develop the patience to see that the child eventually gets it right and it ends up backfiring - which is why I mentioned that there really isn't a correct manual for that. The platform is given (the bible) and the advice, the experience given but family-A could do it their own way and get it right and family-B follows the logical and correct way of doing it and could get it wrong.

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@Sheamus I'd recommend that you write a book😉 . Motivation should come from being unafraid to fail. In fact aiming for failure could get you to succeed in whatever it is you're aiming for.

Damn guys gg lol

Like for instance, if you Chase failure rather than success you'll realize how much progress you're making towards your goal. It worked with my start-up. The moment I stopped chasing success and begun chasing failure, I could feel the fear just dying off and whenever I go present to investors I would go there expecting to fail, and making so much room for it only too realize that it pushed me to become 500% better than when I were to Chase success.

Just adding my 2 cents😅 .. @Sheamus

@Dusk Lol I know, it's insane right?

True, relationships shouldn't be superficial, I do believe the acceptance and tolerance for divorce and encouragement of premarital sex really has gone a long way to deplete any moral value of what a family or a home really ought to be, but to mention the purpose of a partner.

As for raising children, I see your argument, but I really could also share my observations here to make better sense of it, people's interpretation goes a long way, if you say there are families that have done everything right, be active in their children's lives etc and it backfires, then how does one define doing everything, or being active in their lives?

You know a tree by its fruits, a good tree produces good fruit, a corrupt tree produces corrupt fruit, food trees don't produce corrupt fruit, and corrupt trees don't produce good fruit. Therefore, if someone is doing it "right" but it's coming out wrong, then actually they are doing it wrong, but for some reason believe what they are doing is right. They are confused, their interpretation of right and wrong is messed up, and not consistent with someone else that is getting the desired results.

So that's my closing statement on the matter there. We shouldn't assume everyone agrees on what's right and wrong, clearly we don't, and the only way to actually tell what's what is by the results produced. If your results are shitty, then your understanding is shitty, your reasoning is shitty, and this often is a result of doing things differently from what is known to work. This is yet again the argument against multiculturalism, but that's leading into a whole different topic that I'm not going to touch right now, it's too late and I need sleep lol.

@Rainbow Monkeys my lack of motivation is not rooted in failure though. I suppose it's more relevance and also time. For anything I can write about, there's hundreds of other books on the same topic, probably not offering the same content really, but if it's not politically correct, it's not going to get anywhere I guess lol, and time, given for things are going and how little time I have, because I want to do so many things, I dunno where ill find time for it, but I suppose I need a reason, then I can prioritize it in some way.

@Rainbow Monkeys and thanks for the 2 cents, I don't really have an issue with success or failure, I tend to be largely successful in most things I attempt because I have an intimate passion and understanding for the things I undertake, that I can't help but be the best I can be in it lol. I don't pursue things I dislike, because then I know I will be the worst at it lol... Something I've learnt along time ago, do the things that come naturally to you, that interest you, if you don't need to be paid to do something, and you naturally do it and enjoy it, you will succeed in it... Again we come to the materialistic perception that people seemingly push for, doing jobs they hate, but it pays well, and then they hate their jobs and suck at it because they do the bare minimum, and never really grow at all... Sad how people torture themselves like that.

@Sheamus I think you can find time. Look at the duration of this conversation, that's at least a page or two? Lol. You could give wisdom to the lost. There never really is a "suitable" time to begin. Myles Munroe mentions that the MOST wealthiest place on earth is the graveyard, where people have taken their gifts and talents with. Caroline Leaf take it further to say that if you've got the perception that multitasking is a thing then you will not manage time as you should be but instead being able to change in between tasks will rewire your mind to achieve really anything you want at that particular moment.

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I seem to be on a roll tonight lol

^^ I had initially planned to end the conversation with the cringe topic but the flow man Lol.

Well, if I'm going to write a book, I'm going to need to do a sample first, need to figure out the format and structure of writing a book, particularly the kind of book it's going to be. So what kind of book should it be, and what should the topic be? Not going to waste my time on something that's not going to be productive.

Haha, yeah these conversations really are good, I don't consider this a waste of time, I really do enjoy it. Lol I can see how people enjoy pod casts and stuff of you get the right topic going and it flows like this.

@Sheamus Agreed. As you've previously stated, if it's something you enjoy and overlook the materialistic part of it, we could be looking at the world's biggest author?.. If you can talk for almost two hours to just one person then imagine what other 10+ million people would be feeling at that particular moment reading something they need amidst all this negativity and madness.

I'm guilty as charged, I listen to podcasts and I mostly listen to Caroline Leaf. And I think mostly because I make it a goal to keep my circles as tiny as possible and rooted with maturity and a good sense of reasoning.

@spursfan82 was looking for podcasts, so he might enjoy giving these a go. I'll try look up Dr Caroline and see what she offers me 🙃 thanks @Rainbow Monkeys

Anyways, it's 2am, we shall pickup on this again sometime, I should have slept ages ago, but perhaps we can get into a voice chat sometime, get more words in less time and have a fuller conversation.

Lol okay no problem.

Thanks! @Sheamus & @Rainbow Monkeys

Just caught up on your conversation. Sad I missed out on the fun!

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