Message from @Sheamus

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2018-11-06 20:26:51 UTC  

Some of the study’s findings included:

> The Authoritative parents who balanced firm control with encouragement reared the most socially responsible and assertive children, i.e. achievement orientation, friendliness toward peers, cooperativeness with adults, social dominance, nonconforming behavior and purposiveness.

> The Authoritative parents favored corporal punishment over other negative sanctions.

> Permissive parents (both mothers and fathers) admitted to “explosive attacks of rage in which they inflicted more pain or injury upon the child than they had intended.” They became more “violent because they felt they could neither control the child’s behavior nor tolerate its effect upon themselves.”

Punishment is an effective means of controlling childhood behavior, and is not intrinsically harmful to the child.

2018-11-06 20:27:17 UTC  
2018-11-06 20:28:39 UTC  

And this was just a brief search too, I bet i could find many more if I actually invested the time to prove what I am already convinced of from witnessing it in reality.

2018-11-06 20:31:47 UTC  

"When you are old and in a nursing home. If you are behaving badly due to mental problems and spanking works on you. Should the elderly be spanked and threatened if it works?"

LOL!! You clearly dont understand any of this if this is your real world example... This is not how it works lol

2018-11-06 20:33:07 UTC  

"The problem today is massive degredation of the family. Single parent households and bad parents lead to bad kids. Poorer communities are having more kids than we have ever seen in the past which was probably less of a problem when you were in school."

Yeah this is a real issue, we call it the liberal issue, tolerating the intolerable

2018-11-06 20:35:15 UTC  

"The problem today is massive degredation of the family. Single parent households and bad parents lead to bad kids. Poorer communities are having more kids than we have ever seen in the past which was probably less of a problem when you were in school. You probably went to schools when there was a lower divorce rate, more middle class kids and schools are obviously much worse today than 10-15 years ago. Poorer communities tend to produce unruly kids for various reasons. Kids also learn bad behaviour from other kids. Schooling has gotten quite bad in SA. Quality has gone down."

Actually you know what, that whole paragraph I agree with. All the more reason things were better back then than it is today.

2018-11-06 20:36:03 UTC  

And I will leave my comments at that and call it a night, otherwise I dont get any sleep again tonight.

2018-11-06 20:40:59 UTC  

Remember Sub to Pewdiepie

2018-11-06 20:55:51 UTC  

saying that spanking makes kids violent is bullshit, people are naturally violent

2018-11-06 20:55:57 UTC  

always have been, always will be

2018-11-06 21:00:17 UTC  

@Sheamus This will probably be my last post but just wanted to point this out. You cannot use that study to justify spanking according to the study's own limitations. They state so themselves in that same study. The study even says they have doubts that their results are generalisable to other countries. They studied american preschoolers for a very limited period, 7-8 years which does not measure long term effects that I am talking about:

"A third limitation was the inability to demonstrate a causal link between parenting and youth adjustment. In the same way that positive associations between physical discipline and maladjustment (delinquency and depressive symptoms) must not be used to claim that physical discipline causes maladjustment in other non-experimental studies, findings of positive associations between age-delimited physical discipline and competence in the present study must not be used to claim that age-delimited physical discipline causes competence."

Another gem of a quote from your study. They don't have evidence supporting school spanking:

"Nor should we expect the results to generalize to non-parental care-giving institutions such as schools or daycare centers. The dynamics of the parent–child relationship in which parents have responsibility for the child’s long-term well-being, and in biological families a genetic drive to protect the child, are very diff erent than the dynamics of short-term, non-biological caregiving relationships. "

2018-11-06 21:00:33 UTC  

@andrews2547 Agreed, by nature we are monsters, it's the authority of law being enforced that allows us to transcend that based degeneracy.

2018-11-06 21:01:58 UTC  

@Mr Wood Author statement:This research should not be used to encourage parents to spank for the sake of spanking. For many children, nonphysical discipline is sufficient. Parents should always try nonphysical discipline first. This research should be used to help prevent the legal banning of a disciplinary technique effective in reducing child noncompliance in clinical trials and used safely by many parents.

2018-11-06 21:02:49 UTC  

Like I said, just a brief search (10min maybe), I could find more if I really wanted to. Thank you for playing, and have a good evening 🙂

2018-11-06 21:25:23 UTC  

@Sheamus wow, the one author of that study gets destroyed by other researchers: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/01494929.2017.1308899

We won't agree. We can probably both find research contradicting each other. I just want to encourage everyone else reading this to actually read a few research articles and meta studies from a diverse set of researchers. Pro-and-con spanking and make up your own minds. My argument is the behavioural problems are caused by issues related to family, schooling, society and poverty. Spanking is not going to solve those issues.

2018-11-06 21:38:23 UTC  

Why can the seven dwarfs don't can't go into a bar because their miner

2018-11-06 21:39:13 UTC  

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2018-11-06 21:39:55 UTC  

20-25 years ago, spanking was seen as a bad thing and now we can have memes like that

2018-11-06 21:40:33 UTC  

that can't be a coincidence

2018-11-06 21:42:45 UTC  

True story @Apollo 😂

2018-11-06 21:43:50 UTC  

@Mr Wood that's all good and well, like, brief 10min or so search to prove the point that you can find anything to back up any argument. End of the day, it's what works and provides results. Back in the day, actually for centuries you've seen mankind and society rise up to the achievements we recognise today, and you can't say history was a walk in the park. That expression of what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger comes to mind.

End of the day, if you go from adult to adult who have been getting the corporal punishment treatment, you will find an overwhelming support for the good that it did them, myself including who got the shit beaten out of me, and I, like many others can look at that kid doing that and cringe at the thought of the repercussions that kid would have been faced with back in the day. Also today my mental health is not destroyed, I'm not a delinquent or even consider committing a crime, and I'm not subject to any abuse at all, other having my gender, race, sexuality etc increasingly threatened with hateful words and raging actions of violence.

You can throw a bunch of studies and fancy wording around that certainly can be convincing, but reality just has a way of surprising you.

I don't know what your age is, or your surroundings when you grew up, but me personally and people I've discussed this topic with world wide report the same observations. Kids today are monsters, and they don't know any better, better being boundaries, because there just isn't anything stopping them from crossing the line, and boy do they cross the line.. This student throwing water is rather underwhelming if you've watched and read about other incidents going on.

But yeah, let the people look into it themselves and decide for themselves.

2018-11-06 23:27:20 UTC  

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2018-11-07 00:19:08 UTC  

Damn those teeth are white

2018-11-07 00:19:41 UTC  

Civic Duty

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/483400118809395200/509522294427746335/IMG_20181106_180009.jpg

2018-11-07 00:19:49 UTC  

😂

2018-11-07 00:28:14 UTC  

I only see red, no blue... It comforts me, are you riding the red wave 😎

2018-11-07 01:04:54 UTC  

I kinda voted half and half really...some Blue, some Red. Voted Dem for Governor though. 😛

2018-11-07 01:42:51 UTC  

Run Beto run

2018-11-07 01:43:01 UTC  

Pokémon go to the polls

2018-11-07 01:43:10 UTC  

If you don’t vote you can’t gloat

2018-11-07 01:43:53 UTC  

If you’re lazy you’re no better than Kevin Spacey

2018-11-07 02:05:33 UTC  

Lol careful, sitting on the fence like that can result in butthurt

2018-11-07 02:35:00 UTC  

Well, most of the Republicans were running unopposed, so the only votes that mattered much to me was the gubernatorial one and some amendments.

2018-11-07 02:37:40 UTC  

I found it interesting though that my GP when I was a child was running for county coroner, so I gave her my vote there. 😂

2018-11-07 04:15:38 UTC  

Lol, when do we know the final results?

2018-11-07 04:28:57 UTC  

Either later tonight or tomorrow we'll know the final results..there are still some places that haven't reported in.... I'm part of Alabama District 4 and my district has voted Red which is no surprise..it usually stays Red...that's just Alabama.. Lol..

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/483400118809395200/509585026325938176/Election_Updates.PNG

2018-11-07 04:52:53 UTC  

That's a lot of red.. But the 5 point difference is rather close. Lol will be looking out later today or tomorrow... If I'm not informed by a meme lol

2018-11-07 07:19:07 UTC  

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2018-11-07 07:38:00 UTC  

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2018-11-07 07:38:17 UTC  

I'd vote for Red lol I love that dude. @Apollo

2018-11-07 07:39:35 UTC  

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