For my whole life I've always generally socialized much better with girls than guys.

My wife makes a much better guy than I do, or would but she's okay with being a woman

She's still bitter that she couldn't be a pilot in the military back in 1990 when she could have done it

Given that you are the closest thing to our resident expert (and literally more of an expert on this than most people on left) Are there people with legit dysphonia who are not comfortable as either sex?

All her friends are guys and she's seen as "one of the guys".

thats sexist /s

Yes, Grenade, there are.

Using "guys" to refer to a group of mixed sex humans so SO SEXIST OMG >:C SO PATRIARCHY

If it had been more of an option I just might have chosen eunuch but I didn't feel society would have been able to handle that.

you would have been forced into a boy's choir /s

I honestly had the surgery because my wife was clear. Guy or girl - she couldn't handle a dickgirl as her partner, even platonic.

Her words

Makes sense.

I had a lovely voice as a youth. Bummer I lost it. 😦

i enjoyed singing when i was in middle school. then had no clue where my range was so i dropped out

I've never had a beautiful voice lmao

Gf says i could probably sing again if i tried. obviously in the low ranges

My voice is my one challenge. I pull it off, but it's not easy. I envy women like Blaire the success they have with their voice.

there will be day in the not so distant future where you will probably be able to just get surgery to have your voice changed with accuracy

I've had some times that could be described as dysphoric but for the most part I think I fit better as just a feminine guy

I'm glad. Honestly, trans is not preferable. It's a last ditch option for the truly desperate.

Yeah

It should *never* be cool

like abortion?

I ask people for their compassion, not their applause

I just work on my figure to make it feminine and that's really all I need to be happy XD

Yeah trans as like some sort of trend is awful and genuinely toxic

*highfive*

🖐

And yes, Grenade, like abortion

name 1 thing that is common on tumblr that isn't toxic?

Hmm

Some of the meme accounts are ok

Also some good discourse blogs

but are they really common?

Oh, common.

Good point.

yes, common. I know there is good art and stuff that exist there, but its not really common

You should read siryouarebeingmocked on Tumblr if you can, it's a great discourse blog.

Lots of making fun of crazy Tumblr lefties

The best part is when they try to call him a privileged white dude and then he reveals he's a Caribbean black guy