If you're convicted of a DV, thanks to a law sponsored by Frank Lautenberg, you can never even touch a gun again

For the rest of your life, no exceptions

If you're in the military, your career is done.

Same for cops

If you see a bruise or a mark, arrest them. Grown adults don't hit each other. I would never hit a woman I love, unless she grabbed a weapon. Maybe it's because I inherently see women as the weaker sex, idk

Ehh

Its too hard a punishment

Unless she has massive muscles.

Arrest them both press charges on both

Takes 2 to tango

That's what I'm saying.

Depends on how severe.

If they're done fighting let them go

As it is now men 100% get their life ruined no matter what happened

But if they can't be controlled then arrest them.

Its just like rape allegations right now

Get into argument, headbutt door frame, call cops, gg faggot your life is ruined now

Shit like that is why i still believe in public humiliation. Put them in a pillory and throw tomatoes at them. No mercy.

Shame them. Make them pay for the shame they caused their victim.

Spit on them, laugh at them. Make their day miserable.

If they show signs of suicidal ideation lock them up in a mental ward. You don't let them take the easy way out. Drug them up to where they're numb enough to not feel emotion.

False rape accussations sole intention is to ruin someone's life, and the only way to stop that kind of nonsense is make an example of someone. Put fear into the people's heart.

Fuck it, maybe I am full blown authoritarian.

I don't advocate for total control of people's lives, just the strict adherence to moral principle.

Public accusations should just be illegal

Until they are convicted it should be defamation of the highest order and the accusers should have to pay damages immediately

Probably should have to pay the the accused defense as well

Handle it properly or shut the fuck up

Can't arrest both except in a rare circumstance

And unfortunately most states require an arrest if there is probable cause. No discretion

Even if you know the case isn't legit

Went to a call where he wanted her to leave, because she cheated. She refused to leave. Technically can't make her, but I talked her into it, call Mom and stay with her, call us to stand by and get your stuff etc.

Ironically she was black, he was white

And a huge age difference

Nice girl aside from the fact that she cheated

Really nice guy

Separated them, talked to her awhile, she didn't allege any physical harm. She fell and caught herself on the marble sink counter and broke a nail, that was all.

Well, when Mom got ahold of her, they apparently talked, and next day they went to the police station to report him for hitting her, grabbing her, preventing her from leaving, and taking her phone so she couldn't call 911. Even though HE is the one who called us originally and it was via the nonemergency number

Female officer I've talked about before that fucked a bunch of people including her boss, while married to a sailor, she gets the call. Calls me up and asks why I didn't arrest blah blah. I explained everything and she insisted he must be lying.

Her next phone call was to the magistrate court, got a warrant signed and arrested him at work. Note that she never even talked to him to get his side or anything.

He was in the hiring process for a really good job on the Navy base. Not anymore after he got arrested.