https://www1.nyc.gov/assets/cchr/downloads/pdf/publications/GenderID_Card2015.pdf

"BI-GENDERED • CROSS-DRESSER • DRAG KING • DRAG QUEEN
FEMME QUEEN • FEMALE-TO-MALE • FTM • GENDER BENDER
GENDERQUEER • MALE-TO-FEMALE • MTF • NON-OP • HIJRA
PANGENDER • TRANSEXUAL/TRANSSEXUAL • TRANS PERSON
WOMAN • MAN • BUTCH • TWO-SPIRIT • TRANS • AGENDER
THIRD SEX • GENDER FLUID • NON-BINARY TRANSGENDER
ANDROGYNE • GENDER GIFTED • GENDER BLENDER • FEMME
PERSON OF TRANSGENDER EXPERIENCE • ANDROGYNOUS"

Not to make it all about my situation, but my wife and I are legally married. She does not find me physically attractive and does not identify as lesbian or bi. But I do find her attractive and do identify as bi. I have almost zero libido, though, so she tolerates my snuggling since it never goes anywhere because I have no desire for it to. She satisfies herself with dildos n' stuff when I'm not around because it doesn't interest me. So question - what are our labels?

you? close to asexual. Her? average. Relationship? Platonic.

So are we gay?

doesn't really apply

Technically your marriage is homosexual. But the relationship lacks the sexual part of homosexual.

Sex is a social construct.

Depends on what you are calling sex.

That's what a Nazi would say!

ORANGE MAN BAD!

Or Bill Clinton :p

😦

Bill was ahead of his time.

He identified as Monica Lewinsky at the time, so it was technically masturbation.

The act of depositing sperm near an egg of the same species is biological sex

No, it's only sex if it produces offspring.

Fetuses are not human.

Ergo, it's not sex.

Planned Parenthood.

Checkmate.

Anyway, grenade, many of those labels are gender expression. NYC was lazy when they wrote thier protections law.

cross-dressing is gender expression? as if being a drag queen/king?

How can sex be real if our waifus ain't real ;_;

Yes. Gender expression.

Wait ... hold on.

Gender expression is a characteristic that is independent of sex, right?

Don't diss mai waifus, Zepp :p

Is there still such a thing as biological sex?

Are there two sexes but infinite numbers of genders?

what is gender expression then?

what is gender?

Or are there infinite numbers of sexes and different genders? Because, I hear intersex being brought up a lot in those contexts.

Because, if there is no clear sex, then there cannot be gender expression that correlates to any sex, because gender is any appearance.

Gender expression is a thing only because some people get thier undies in a bunch when a guy wears a dress or cosmetics

You would no longer be able to tie any appearance to any sex.

Wearing a hat could be a gender expression then.

Yes a hat can

so we are protecting people from being called weird?

Why should wearing a dress be a gender expression if it is all a social construct and there are correlations with sex?

why protect wearing a dress and not a pocket protector?