Message from @GT1646
Discord ID: 616098440501264387
There are no little victories
Small things like making eye contact with people you walk by.. That increases confidence surprisingly
You wake up every single day with an opportunity millions won't have.
Billions, even.
You are an American.
Throw yourself into uncomfortable situations and look back at how you are resilient and survived despite the anxiety you faced
I'd love to be an American. You have that on me
I've tried that.
Doesn't do anything for me
Except make me uncomfortable
You are like skin.
If you put yourself in uncomfortable situations
You will become calloused.
It won't bother you.
This is good confidence for harder tasks.
Like dating.
It doesn't happen overnight.
It's a building process.
It's emotional muscle.
I've already explained that none of my effort has ever resulted in a positive outcome for me.
@wwezombiegod might as well block me now.
GT
Do you cook dinner for yourself?
No I'm serious.
I have
If you cook dinner for yourself, you have a positive outcome.
If you get dressed to go to school.
That's postiive.
🙄
You are able to complete a simple task.
I'm being serious.
You are choosing to look at the negative.
No I'm not
Positives: I can tie my shoes
Negatives: I lack social skills, work skills, a future, I have massive debt, and no matter what I do I can't attaing my physical goals
bro
Guess I'm choosing to look at the negatives...
You should actually start journaling. Make yourself think of something positive that happened each day and write it down. Even if it sounds stupid. Your brain is lazy and gets used to patterns of thoughts. You just have to change it
my conversations skills SUCK
But you try.
You keep trying