She wants to

But it's like she's ready to do a HALO jump

But can't bring herself to acknowledge the green light

Did you tried theraphy?

I'm in therapy actually

But she's not ready to go with me

I'm looking for suggestions as to how I can encourage her mind to take this opportunity with me again

I mean, y'all must've had relationships before where you've fucked up and had to do something important to fix it

If she cares she will do it

She need to know that you want to be with her and this therapis is going to help you both be happy togeder

Perhaps you're right

Thanks

And if she cares about kid kid should have father and you will be MVP at being father my man

I would die for that kid. And I would live for him too.

Even i know that i'm sure you will be a great father

Thank you

Well I haven't slept yet

Two nights of waking up freaking out or just not sleeping

I feel you same here

That being said, Alexei don't sweat the small shit, you're gonma be a good dad. Just make sure the kid knows you love him

@DAnteForneus shit sucks my dude

I know

I hope i can get a night full of sleep soon

I would just acknowledge that you both messed up and you need to work on it together as a unit, if you both broke each other's trust then you can both improve on it together and regain each other's trust

If you think you're at the bottom and want to go to the top, do step by step

Do something sweet for her

A gift or something

Just level with her brother. Tell her how you truly feel. Tell her what you feel in your heart of hearts.

@AKAlexei

She knows

Tell her anyways. Tell her all of your dreams and hopes brother, make sure she knows that you truly want to be a family with her, to build something together

I've been doing that actually

It matters. Women are weird man. They like that shit. Or so I've been told. I didnt even try to fight for my last relationship. It just wasn't worth it.

I might try talking with girl i like about it @Deleted User it might help

Well fuck my life, might have lost my job. (Not just me but everyone I work with)

So It's not your fault then

You'll get another job, that's for sure

More of a headache to deal with

The irony is that lastnight I was telling myself I wanted to quit

What was your job?

I was a chef in training

Wow

That's cool, folk

But don't get too worried. Shit happens all the time

I know, shit can always go sideways, just gotta roll with it

You good fam?

Yeah

Did you ever feel at some moment you're stopping to like to do things you usually loved to do?

Y'all questioned some time "It's not the same thing as before"?

Every day

Yup

i do some time ussaly means i'm getting burnt out on it

so i take a break do other things then come back to it

Chicks and there fucking bullshit man I swear to God

Solution?

One day we will have sexbots that can reproduce

Hopefully sooner than later

Just gotta find a good one

That seems to be harder now a days all there is now are sluts and not the good kind

Tf when your ex texts you and you consider stealing a predator drone

It depends

What did she say?

I got lucky with mine tbh met in highschool been together since

She's trying to stay friends. Despite all she's done, she texts and I still respond

Drop it. Cut off all forms of commo with her

That shit only serves to hurt, man.

^^^^

Large facts

Y’all can be friends after you’ve been in no less than 5 new relationships and it’s been a decade. Trust me, I’ve been there. It sucks, it hurts, it’s depressing as hell, but you can’t be friends with your ex

Oof

True

My ex betrayed my trust so I told her to fuck off don't surround yourself with people who are willing to betray you that goes for friends too

I dont have trust left to betray man

Then definitely start telling people to fuck off

That's the plan

Hell ya my dude

Kinda wanna be a royal dick when I see her and ask if any of it was true

Shitty day

Yeah?

Oi fegs

Anyone down for an actual vc chat in a bir

Bit*

I’m about to clock back in or I would be

Big gey

Lol I walk a dog for work. Sometimes we find things that go boom. It’s the most rewarding job I’ve ever had.

I'm tracking lol

Yeah, looks like everything is bothering me

Falling to depression again, maybe

Don't want to happen again

Find something to take your mind off of it

Anythinf

Like do push ups of nothing else

If I had the will for it

force yourself

be strong

dont think just do

Dig deep
Hit hard

If I didn't have a mental condition

get up and just go walk

^^^