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2018-11-22 23:34:02 UTC

2018-11-22 23:34:08 UTC

Hello

2018-11-22 23:34:16 UTC

Hello

2018-11-22 23:34:26 UTC

Anyone wanna talk in general vc

2018-11-22 23:34:51 UTC

just lmk where the chat generally happens

2018-11-22 23:36:03 UTC

Join it

2018-11-23 00:52:34 UTC

I have a question for @everyone!
Hello my name is Silver and Iโ€™m a young adult novelist. Iโ€™m currently working on a series that targets young men and the social issues that theyโ€™ll unfortunately have to face. And adventure!

In-between the action there are usually slice of life sections where the main characters are confronted with social hurdles to jump. For example, the first book has tackled: Equal gender responsibility in dating, Defending yourself priorities, Respect, False accusation.

What kind of issues would YOU want young adults to learn about, In the next book?
And donโ€™t worry if these issues donโ€™t have well defined answers yet, I have a duo of writers who help me hash out what could be an answer.

2018-11-23 00:54:42 UTC

My two biggest things is dealing with weight. Iโ€™ve been super skinny my entire life and struggle to gain any weight. Itโ€™s been an issue because Iโ€™ve had to deal with people saying Iโ€™m too skinny and must not be eating enough.

The other is living with the fact that Iโ€™m circumcised. Itโ€™s not something I chose to be but it is something I have to live with for my entire life. Every boyfriend Iโ€™ve had has been uncut and it just makes me hate myself.

2018-11-23 01:31:46 UTC

Ew, @ing everyone. @Silver_The_Bard: Trying to help a man in a (physically) abusive relationship? A male-skewed homelessness issue like coping with having to temporarily go through rough-sleeping and accompanying social isolation? (potentially harder to do without affecting continuity, especially with YA protagonists) Some other issues, like education discrimination or the draft might be very hard to fit into a story with an already-defined setting, and you've already done false accusations so paternity fraud might be too similar.

2018-11-23 01:33:41 UTC

If you're looking for a list of men's social issues, this website is a decent source that explains things in a broad fashion without being a book on each one: https://rbomi.com/

2018-11-23 01:40:47 UTC

2018-11-23 02:11:54 UTC

@asparkofpyrokravte Thank you for this! And yes ew for the "all". But this was one of those few situations where I did want to get everyone's attention.

2018-11-23 02:12:11 UTC

I will use it sparingly.

2018-11-23 04:26:44 UTC

2018-11-23 06:57:58 UTC

Sorry about the bot. I'll fix it, lol

2018-11-23 07:23:02 UTC

2018-11-23 07:23:44 UTC

Hello! I am currently collecting signatures for an open letter about men's rights. Anyone who would consider signing it is welcome to e-mail me at [email protected]

2018-11-23 07:42:30 UTC

Cool. What is the letter about? Could you post us a copy?

2018-11-23 07:46:04 UTC

Can you e-mail me at [email protected] ?

2018-11-23 07:55:01 UTC

it's similar to the complaints listed on my website ..

2018-11-23 08:05:32 UTC

Looks like it could do interesting things, lol

2018-11-23 08:11:01 UTC

That for sure, ironically women are the biggest opposition to the potential amendment where not the media nor feminists have spoken against it yet (shocking) , putting men's gender of the birth certificate only serve the purposes that you want to change, after all men aren't asking for special protections but just to be seen as humans

2018-11-23 08:24:15 UTC

interesting

2018-11-23 08:41:03 UTC

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2018-11-23 09:02:58 UTC

There we are

2018-11-23 09:03:04 UTC

IT'S WORKING!!!

2018-11-23 09:03:11 UTC

Hallelujah

2018-11-23 09:03:24 UTC

How many different subs can you connect this to?

2018-11-23 09:03:26 UTC

And now to mess with it until it doesn't. ๐Ÿ˜‰

2018-11-23 09:03:35 UTC

About a hundered

2018-11-23 09:05:07 UTC

2018-11-23 09:05:27 UTC

Oh dear

2018-11-23 09:05:43 UTC

I forgot that r/mensrights mostly consists of low-effort memes

2018-11-23 09:06:40 UTC

@Men Are Human how about r/mractivism r/masculism r/femradebates r/menslib for starters?\

2018-11-23 09:06:45 UTC

Good to break the bubbles

2018-11-23 09:07:39 UTC

well, I specialize in filing civil rights complaints against US colleges.

2018-11-23 09:08:13 UTC

Legitimate complaints or spurious ones?

2018-11-23 09:08:29 UTC

Because TBF we have had a problem with the latter recently.

2018-11-23 09:08:38 UTC

(looking at you eagle rock)

2018-11-23 09:08:41 UTC

Spurious in what sense

2018-11-23 09:09:31 UTC

Claims that are not the result of legitimate discrimination (IE the Eagle Rock Brewery incident)

2018-11-23 09:09:43 UTC

The federal government is prosecuting them, so I wouldn't call them spurious: https://www.campusreform.org/?ID=10899

2018-11-23 09:10:58 UTC

That seems relatively solid, Professor

2018-11-23 09:11:49 UTC

Why do you think the Eagle Rock Brewery case is spurious? granted, suing a beer event seems trivial, but it's still discrimination under Californian laws

2018-11-23 09:11:58 UTC

r/mractivismseems to be mostly 'red pill hangout' videos. I'm not sure what that is

2018-11-23 09:12:08 UTC

Yeah, that is annoying

2018-11-23 09:12:15 UTC

the mods there are garbage

2018-11-23 09:13:12 UTC

@Kursat Christoff Pekgoz Despite being illegal by "californian laws", it does not really affect men. Single gender spaces are important. One day a week for a few hours will not hurt men

2018-11-23 09:13:20 UTC

california is not smart

2018-11-23 09:13:28 UTC

america in general is not smart

2018-11-23 09:13:46 UTC

you realize that feminists make it impossible for men to form male-only spaces, right?

2018-11-23 09:14:03 UTC

<#515246258571575297> for that mate

2018-11-23 09:14:12 UTC

lets not get into the feminism thing here

2018-11-23 09:14:13 UTC

do you think it's a coincidence that college campuses offer dozens of female-only groups but nothing equivalent for men?

2018-11-23 09:14:25 UTC

I think that that is definitely a problem

2018-11-23 09:14:41 UTC

But tearing down women is incredibly lazy

2018-11-23 09:15:02 UTC

I don't think that's what we are doing.

2018-11-23 09:15:04 UTC

It would be much better to fight for a male-only space instead of attacking female-only ones

2018-11-23 09:15:15 UTC

Possibly.

2018-11-23 09:15:32 UTC

There's arguments to be made both ways.

2018-11-23 09:15:49 UTC

Good luck obtaining funding for male-only spaces, scholarships, or Male Studies -- it just won't happen.

2018-11-23 09:15:50 UTC

Personally I think both genders need their own spaces

2018-11-23 09:16:42 UTC

@Kursat Christoff Pekgoz that is a challenge, but it is one solved by changing the social memes around gender rather than by making yourself appear to fit the oppressor stereotype

2018-11-23 09:17:48 UTC

That's vague and unhelpful, and doesn't take into account the fact that colleges are run by feminist administrators who actively sabotage male-only spaces

2018-11-23 09:17:59 UTC
2018-11-23 09:18:32 UTC

That is in fact vague, because changing stereotypes is a long and complicated process.

2018-11-23 09:19:31 UTC

And whether or not "colleges are run by feminist administrators who actively sabotage male-only spaces", we need to find out *why* they oppose them and then work with them to find a mutually agreeable solution

2018-11-23 09:19:48 UTC

...I'm off to bed.

2018-11-23 09:19:58 UTC

Good night chap

2018-11-23 09:20:02 UTC

have a good one

2018-11-23 09:20:11 UTC

I will probably head off too

2018-11-23 09:20:13 UTC

night all

2018-11-23 09:20:17 UTC

night night

2018-11-23 09:20:24 UTC

๐Ÿ’ค

2018-11-23 10:04:26 UTC

2018-11-23 10:05:38 UTC

Hello Iain!

2018-11-23 10:06:12 UTC

<:reddit:462994034428870656> **/u/Seven396** posted a new link in **/r/MensRights**
**So much hypocrisy in this world** - <https://redd.it/9zn3cb>
https://i.imgur.com/eTo7biB.jpg

2018-11-23 10:07:26 UTC

Repost

2018-11-23 10:07:36 UTC

Hello Iain!

2018-11-23 10:09:44 UTC

I'm tempted to make the feed got to its own special room as I can see new people instantly being confronted with, say, some kind of troll post.

2018-11-23 10:10:40 UTC

Then again, I like the idea of a feed to this channel as I think it would prompt debates.

2018-11-23 10:11:53 UTC

Any suggestions?

2018-11-23 10:18:51 UTC

Oh. By the way. Is anyone else having problems with the front page of https://menarehuman.com/ on Firefox?

2018-11-23 10:33:44 UTC

2018-11-23 10:33:59 UTC

Hello @wisemanner !

2018-11-23 10:35:38 UTC

<:reddit:462994034428870656> **/u/Mens-Advocate** posted a new link in **/r/MensRights**
**Gynocentric Display: "The Worst Things Men Do While Traveling, According to Women"** - <https://redd.it/9zn90f>
http://www.realclearlife.com/travel/traveling-men-women-fight/

2018-11-23 11:07:25 UTC

Okay. The Reddit Bot will now mainly be posting to the <#515481742052818945> channel, but I have made it so /r/MensRightsBoxes posts in here.

2018-11-23 11:08:30 UTC

I am going to try and set it up so that upvoted posts appear in this thread. From now on news like this will appear in <#513359101082861568>. This will let people post the most interesting things from there to <#512584678314606613> without us getting spammed by memes. Sound good?

2018-11-23 11:12:56 UTC

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2018-11-23 11:13:41 UTC

[UK][telegraph] Growing number of men reporting domestic violence to police, ONS figures reveal - https://redd.it/9zng44

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