Message from @Strufa

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2019-01-26 20:00:44 UTC  

I don't think most women actually know what loneliness is

2019-01-26 20:00:51 UTC  

I do

2019-01-26 20:00:53 UTC  

i thought that's just what being a human was like

2019-01-26 20:01:17 UTC  

its lonely indeed but we evolved to tolerate it

2019-01-26 20:01:38 UTC  

I think loneliness isn’t gender specific

2019-01-26 20:01:45 UTC  

I think everyone is capable of knowing the pangs of loneliness. I might argue a woman's drive to be social is because they hate loneliness so much.

2019-01-26 20:01:48 UTC  

actually i do believe it is

2019-01-26 20:01:53 UTC  

well not 100%

2019-01-26 20:01:58 UTC  

but male do feel more lonely

2019-01-26 20:02:18 UTC  

due to the fact they arent evolved to have bonds with other males due to competition

2019-01-26 20:02:28 UTC  

the thing is a man has to prove his right to not be lonely while a woman can be afforded friends simply for existing and being somewhat attractive

2019-01-26 20:02:40 UTC  

i think males are better at putting themselves in lonely situations since we think the truth is more important than social cohesion and fitting in

2019-01-26 20:02:56 UTC  
2019-01-26 20:03:01 UTC  

I think a man`s best friend is a dog or a cat

2019-01-26 20:03:05 UTC  

we don't really go along to get along

2019-01-26 20:03:12 UTC  

since it doesnt have to compete with it for anything

2019-01-26 20:03:24 UTC  

I think a man’s best friend is Kek

2019-01-26 20:03:28 UTC  

Try presenting yourself as a woman online and see how much nicer people treat you and how much more eager they are to be your friend

2019-01-26 20:03:34 UTC  

Praise kek

2019-01-26 20:03:36 UTC  

true

2019-01-26 20:03:39 UTC  

Indeed

2019-01-26 20:03:41 UTC  

my dogs are my kids 😃

2019-01-26 20:03:51 UTC  

I don't think that's true, Three. I think that women are encouraged to communicate and have aptitude for communication, therefore use it more in the development of friendships. But,it's not discounting men can be very lonely - and I don't think society overly cares if they are. Which is sad.

2019-01-26 20:04:00 UTC  

Dude dont overextend

2019-01-26 20:04:03 UTC  

@ThreeOfOne Loneliness isn't just having no one around, it's also the feeling of not being able to connect to anyone despite being surrounded by people. Just because I have a vagina doesn't mean that I don't feel lonely at times. sometimes I even feel lonely while I'm hanging out with people I call friends.

2019-01-26 20:04:08 UTC  

you are filling a void dont forget that

2019-01-26 20:04:23 UTC  

again I said most women, not discounting exceptions

2019-01-26 20:04:26 UTC  

@ThreeOfOne you also have jerks but yes a man is mostly expected to initiate contact

2019-01-26 20:04:32 UTC  

god dammit this is Evangelion all over gain

2019-01-26 20:04:34 UTC  

again*

2019-01-26 20:04:34 UTC  

Are you lonely, @ThreeOfOne ?

2019-01-26 20:04:42 UTC  

no matter what happens i will always fill a void in space

2019-01-26 20:04:58 UTC  

The entire plot of that anime is literally the incapability of humans to make conections with others

2019-01-26 20:05:34 UTC  

thats the second psycholigical crux of humanity the hedgehog dilemma

2019-01-26 20:05:56 UTC  

my atoms will disperse air molecules in all directions in order to take up room in 3d space

2019-01-26 20:05:59 UTC  

tribalism does help with that one tho

2019-01-26 20:06:04 UTC  
2019-01-26 20:06:06 UTC  

you feel like you belong

2019-01-26 20:06:13 UTC  

I think it is difficult for many men to speak to things that make them appear vulnerable too. I have no qualms saying things like "I am lonely" whereas the men in my life I know would struggle to admit this.

2019-01-26 20:06:32 UTC  

btw if you are interested in the dillemma is this

2019-01-26 20:06:37 UTC  

@Beyr I don't wanna make this about me but yes, I consider myself a pretty lonely person. I grew up a latchkey kid, mostly raised myself because my mom was busy working. Never learned to bond or connect with other people and later learned I might be on the autism spectrum, so I've never really experienced a true friendship in the 24 years I've been on this planet