Message from @Folic

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2019-01-28 15:29:12 UTC  

if the answer is a yes then it's all good, nothing to worry about.

2019-01-28 15:29:49 UTC  

well if he gets declined, you wont have to pay that tuition, so at worst you'll not have wasted money on a school that won't teach him a useful trade

2019-01-28 15:32:21 UTC  

i feel a bit weird giving someone around my parents age advice tbh.

2019-01-28 15:33:25 UTC  

would't "why" he was in a catholic school more important to them than just the fact that he was in one ? Whether is was proximity, faith, doubt in the public system...

2019-01-28 15:34:00 UTC  

Thank you all for the input. Please have a great day. Dr. , not going to college is not really an option for my baby. My baby has worked so hard to get that opportunity. Is it weird to think that a parent is concerned?

2019-01-28 15:34:27 UTC  

parents have every right to be concerned.

2019-01-28 15:34:36 UTC  

Parents ought to be concerned

2019-01-28 15:34:48 UTC  

parents will be parents.

2019-01-28 15:36:34 UTC  

though not getting into college isn't always a bad thing, depending what career one wants to pursue there are more time efficient ways to get some credentials or skills

2019-01-28 15:38:45 UTC  

I just would like to give the best chance for success I guess. I went to the military to get my skill set, but it is always about giving the better life to your child thing for me.

2019-01-28 15:40:14 UTC  

Ivy League is tough enough to get in without adding another pass over point.

2019-01-28 15:43:59 UTC  

best of luck for your kid.

2019-01-28 15:47:10 UTC  

Is the narrative that I must trust that the bias is not there?

2019-01-28 15:48:41 UTC  

in my experience, the bias is overblown

2019-01-28 15:49:11 UTC  

some of it might be real, but theres not like, 9 out of ever 10 schools will whip people for the wrong origin

2019-01-28 15:49:38 UTC  

Given that the colleges might be anti religion?

2019-01-28 15:50:00 UTC  

well, you can't see a persons religious devotion

2019-01-28 15:50:12 UTC  

unless they announce it

2019-01-28 15:50:39 UTC  

or they wear some apparel

2019-01-28 15:50:49 UTC  

i'd consider that an announcement

2019-01-28 15:50:54 UTC  

Separation of church and education.

2019-01-28 15:51:08 UTC  

person wearing a hijab i won't start thinking "i wonder if thats a mormon..."

2019-01-28 15:51:32 UTC  

what if it's halloween

2019-01-28 15:51:53 UTC  

unless they have the bombs visibly strapped i wont assume its a costume 😉

2019-01-28 15:52:05 UTC  

but getting back to the college

2019-01-28 15:53:19 UTC  

Very good point that it is more acceptable and might be a bullet point to be Muslim

2019-01-28 15:53:53 UTC  

If the students wont know, they can't be jerks over it
If the teachers don't know they wont be jerks over it

and i'd imagine theres be something reported if a school actively starts declaring the religion of their previous schools as heresy

2019-01-28 15:54:15 UTC  

my way through college was head-down, and doing what i needed for my grades 😉

2019-01-28 15:54:18 UTC  

You can always say that you're from an abrahamic religion.

2019-01-28 15:54:25 UTC  

they'll leave you alone

2019-01-28 15:54:59 UTC  

because there's a 2/3 chance that you're from a protected group

2019-01-28 15:55:27 UTC  

thats already talking past the sale, and assuming they are malevolent

2019-01-28 15:55:47 UTC  

If the school doesn't have signs of clear bias, i wouldn't assume they have one

2019-01-28 15:56:20 UTC  

theres a reason why those wacky schools end up on the news, its BECAUSE they're so clearly insane

2019-01-28 15:56:35 UTC  

Has Catholicism become taboo? I wanted my kid to go there because it was a better option to NM public schools.

2019-01-28 15:56:35 UTC  

most schools don't care, as long as theres no problems

2019-01-28 15:58:10 UTC  

Catholicism itself might be somewaht of a taboo in some heavily SJW'ified areas like Berkley etc

but one can always go with the ol'"there were no other options where i grew up"

2019-01-28 15:58:43 UTC  

but i highly doubt it will be an issue

2019-01-28 15:59:15 UTC  

unless your son starts throwing bibles and pearls at people telling them to repent

2019-01-28 15:59:40 UTC  

whaddup guys

2019-01-28 15:59:47 UTC  

in general, if you don't throw such knowledge in peoples face, other people won't know, so they can't care about it either