so given a vague image of the one whom harmed our loved one... can't we become obessed about it to the point of being poisonous with hate?

Yep

thats tribalism

in its base

that member can be from our own 'tribe'

doesn't matter

still we tend to create subdivision on tribes

our closest members are our innermost tribe members

And scapegoat someone without actually solving a problem

someone can say they hate all bowlers, because that is the descriptor we focus on

i can never fully accept someone with anime avatar into my tribe

im a pariah in most tribes tho

I reject nationalism

So i could betray any country

and i wouldnt give a fuck

YOU HHHHWAT`?

in fact the hatred of men by feminists I think follows that very pattern

yep thats a large and scary form of tribalism

since its the most primal one

but complex ones like families are still a form of tribalism

the hatred of the rich by socialists again is one that bypasses stuff like race

albeit a more complex one

Again tribalism can come from race, culture, ideiology, belief or relationships

I am ethnically russian...
...born in gulag on the territory of current Kirgizstan...
...who then grew up in Lithuania...
...and currently living in Germany

even nationality

nationalism its a form of tribalism

religion another

https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/jail-survey-7-in-10-felons-register-as-democrats

daily reminder

florida is a lost cause 2020

ban felons from voting

or burn prisons same thing

cant because florida passed the ballot because dems HEAVILY pushed it in that state

oh yeah did you know our prison are night clubs?

which is a big swing state basically

now they got a several hundred thousand guaranteed dem majority lol

great thing that they will almost all re-offend within a year and be back in prison then?

like literally night blubs