And I want them to move too

They deserve to be with their own fam

I know how much we hurt because we live borderline alone here

And India isn't like KSA diaspora, people are Hella selfish here

Living alone isn't that bad

It is bad if you are a family person

Which both of my parents arw

Though I feel like my dad low-key is happy he gets to live alone now

Idk

But I know how much mom hurts from all the fam drama she has

Me and my mother have pretty much strayed away from the family

I wish I could love my fam like she does her own

Uh huj

My father's side is dead

Oof

My mother's side is chaos

Oof

Kinda same

I talk to 1 of my cousins and grandparents

Dad's side is chill but manipulative

And that's it

Mom's side is very loyal, but with some drama lately

Everyone else is either dead or not on speaking terms

And all are nutjobs both sides

We got shit ton of extended fam in India

But they low key jealous we are NRIs

So it sucks

I don't have too much extended family

That's low key cool

I do have a half brother who I haven't seen since the age of 4 or 5

Extended fam here is just for wedding invitations and help in the system

If my siblings were Indian citizens like me, I would actually try to help them

But thank god they aren't, so they ain't my responsibility

My stepdad has a massive family

Oof

He's like 1 of 7 brothers

Wait , wasn't he Punjabi?

Or something like that

Yeah

Oof, my dad's side would have been big if his dad didn't die

His dad died when he was a kid