Message from @sleepysclmsft
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Exactly
Brett killed her
And after you get a job and be independent, you will have enough brains to be with anyone without them getting manipulative much
But when you still are with your parents
im in a moment in my life where yea i wanna date some people
but also
And you are betrothed to a stranger working abroad who you do not k ow at all right as you were about to complete your college degree...
im finding it difficult to not think with my dick
I can see why mom went insane
so i my aim when talking to girls is to keep them as friends rather than try and get smth
My mother still tries to rule my life but my situation is hard to be truly independent despite having my own home...being a disabled single parent I do have to rely on my family's help
bc i dont trust myself
Ffs she had to write her finals finals right after her wedding
That sucks @Sassy Peach
And still after that, they didn't let her work permanently
I would definitely become my mom if the same happens to me
And that is why I wan to get the fuck out of this mindset and place
@sleepysclmsft I don't mind so much, I do appreciate the help just not my mother's nagging lol
Awww
I get that part
But her mom nags a lot too
Her mom doesn't nag me though lol
I love my mother very much but she's not the kind of mother I can talk to or hang out with
Ah I get that
Like that mom that only is a mom
Yeah
That ain't that bad, bit I can feel the communication gap
All too common in South Asian elders
They can be very sweet
But will still regard your opinions and way of life as immature and nee
Not all elders btw
I can talk to my grandmother more than my mother always have, relationship advice and stuff like that
But most here traditionally are that way
I wish elders in general were more open minded here
But it's tradition
Someone had to keep it up
We will probably realize that when we grow old
Like, imagine
What if the generation we parent become boomer like??
Oh boy