Mom was 21 when she married dad, dad was 8 years older than her

I can still see her immature love seeking side come out

No don't say that my husband is 8years older than me

The arranged forced to be with each other thing doesn't help either i am sure

Oh sorry

Hahhahahaa

I said under 25 mindset though

Mom was/is very immature

Well I was 22 back then when we started dating. But different situation and by my choice

And she regressed in that newly wed bride mindset sometimes when I was an only child

Yes

@Syenite you got lucky

It was painful

No she didn't she died

I think an age gap can work with very compatible people

Exactly

Brett killed her

And after you get a job and be independent, you will have enough brains to be with anyone without them getting manipulative much

But when you still are with your parents

im in a moment in my life where yea i wanna date some people

but also

And you are betrothed to a stranger working abroad who you do not k ow at all right as you were about to complete your college degree...

im finding it difficult to not think with my dick

I can see why mom went insane

so i my aim when talking to girls is to keep them as friends rather than try and get smth

My mother still tries to rule my life but my situation is hard to be truly independent despite having my own home...being a disabled single parent I do have to rely on my family's help

bc i dont trust myself

Ffs she had to write her finals finals right after her wedding

That sucks @Sassy Peach

And still after that, they didn't let her work permanently

I would definitely become my mom if the same happens to me

And that is why I wan to get the fuck out of this mindset and place

@sleepysclmsft I don't mind so much, I do appreciate the help just not my mother's nagging lol

Awww

I get that part

My best friend loves her mom to death

But her mom nags a lot too

Her mom doesn't nag me though lol

I love my mother very much but she's not the kind of mother I can talk to or hang out with

Ah I get that

Like that mom that only is a mom