I have to retitle things from the Living Trust to the Survivor Trust, then split it in half

Some can be split and others have to be liquidated. Uggghhh!

yes it makes it harder for you to figure things out whan you are doing it

And it's not like there's tons of money in any of them.

But I've been helping the parents with financial stuff for about 3 years

That's why they made me Trustee and Executrix.

is there was wouldnt that have been great i have never inherated anything in my seventy two years from no one

Do you get together with your chldren and grandchldren for Christmas?

(My father was very smart - we never knew how much)

just for christmas meal is all

goinng to put tea on wife is doing something brb

ok

@Gailm it must be hare for you to get ready for christmas and get the work all done as well as have to work yourself

It, is, but I have off work until next Friday.

I should be able to get some stuff done.

I'm going to Mom's today to wash blankets

that is good to get a chance to get more done

Then the girls will meet me there tomorrow with the Pickup and we'll move small furniture.

Getting things done slowly.

But my house is a pig stye.

Need to get stuff done here, too.

Documents, straightening up, making space for the hutch and dining room furniture

isent it costing more money to keep the apertment going while you get the work done

And the two lift chairs I just bought them for an anniversary present.

It's costing almost $2,000/month.

We need to get it closed before the end of the month!

We already paid for November and December.

god move everything to your basement and dont spend that kind of money

than do the work you have to do

They're charging a life care fee - meaning if Mom had to move from the apartment to nursing home she'd pay a lower rate.

SHE ISN'T GOING TO GO TO THE NURSING HOME!!!!! WHY DO I STILL HAVE TO PAY THAT $475/month?????

you should not have to pay that

They'll say it's because it's in the contract.

And Mom had it on auto payments on her credit card.

do you have to keep her contract

I tried to get the payments stopped, but they needed a death certificate and still didn't get stuff stopped in time.

I think we found it in Dad's room.

I'm going to check to see if it says that the fee continues after death.

i hope so or move all the stuff to your basement and do what you have to do from home

i cant see it having to be honered after death it was hers not yours

My brother and his kids are taking the bedroom furniture and some other stuff.