He lives about 15-20 miles away

Not bad, but still a pain in the neck

No doubt, brother and I had to close out her bank accounts

Technically, the money in the bank accounts is mine because I'm an owner.

But I wouldn't do that to my brother.

i'll split everything down the middle

I even split the cash in her drawer

One for you, one for me - LOL

I have a great aunt in a nursing home and she pays 6200 a month

@QuikWit How long ago was that for you?

Just turned 95

Good grief, nursing home care is expensive!!!

3 years ago my mom passed

Dad was 97, died in May;

Mom was 92, Died November 2

Wowweee

That's awesome

You have longevity in your family.

How old was your father?

My parents were married 72 years.

My dad was young, 57

Oh, my goodness.

Heart problem?

Yes and lung

Let's hope you take after Mom.

Please tell me you do not smoke.

They both had long living relatives but few didn't

Great grandmother was 92

Is your great aunt in pretty good health

That must have been hard on your mother for your father to have died so young.

She is but is dealing with dementia now

I think Mom missed Dad so much.

Dementia is such an evil illness

It was tough on my mother bc the suffering he went through and he was the man that took care of things, ya know

I understand that.

That's the way it was with their generation.

My great aunt never took even an aspirin

Dad took care of everything.

Mom didn't have anything to do with finances until Dad started slipping.

And then she wanted to pay EVERYTHiNG.

No, Mom, not THAT bill!