Sounds like you are in a battle

I was the executor then

One thing, though, they had a trust and they named me as a trustee.

It now goes to an administrative trust which has a new FEIN number.

She hasn't filed the paperwork for that yet.

After POA, executor

In the meantime, I can still act as a co-trustee

In your case, executor.

In my case, trustee.

Gotcha

No executor for a trust.

No

The will states I'm personal rep, but it will still be trustee.

And my brother will be co-trustee

But I have authority to disburse and liquidate funds, etc.

Do you both have to sign everything

They worded it that way on purpose

No, for that exact reason

It would be a mess to have to get both signatures on everything.

He lives about 15-20 miles away

Not bad, but still a pain in the neck

No doubt, brother and I had to close out her bank accounts

Technically, the money in the bank accounts is mine because I'm an owner.

But I wouldn't do that to my brother.

i'll split everything down the middle

I even split the cash in her drawer

One for you, one for me - LOL

I have a great aunt in a nursing home and she pays 6200 a month

@QuikWit How long ago was that for you?

Just turned 95

Good grief, nursing home care is expensive!!!

3 years ago my mom passed

Dad was 97, died in May;

Mom was 92, Died November 2

Wowweee

That's awesome

You have longevity in your family.

How old was your father?

My parents were married 72 years.

My dad was young, 57

Oh, my goodness.