Don’t become like their side

I'm in the US, US laws screw men in family court. I'll likely never get married again. I'm glad for my kid he's great. The price & damage to me from the marriage was high.

Never have kids. If anything adopt

Yeah, divorce seems super real shit in the US

Nah but seriously despite my hedonistic fantasies I'm strictly 100% monogamous

Also entirely childfree.

Yep

And little interest in marriage because it just doesn't mean anything to me, I could be convinced if I was with somebody long enough though.

Canada where I am is not better though, except that you can't be jailed for child support

Hear also

Oh, that doesn't apply to all the states? Nice

Looks like I'm moving to Canada if I ever knock a girl up

I'm going to move over to general because it makes more sense than chatting in here

in every state I believe.

yeah, I'll bring this to general

actually, divorce, since general has its own discussion

anyway thanks all

i hatemyself

There are many others don't who hate you. I don't know how to really help someone with this, but I've known some people who think this. There are so many people out there who love ya man, I'm sure if it.

thanks Karbon

Yeah. Hopefully it helped ya.

eh it is what is

Anyone else ever think about the fact that we are going to die one day and get really bothered by it?

I won't care when I'm dead, so no sense worrying about it now

Eh, I'm religious and I'm also an /r/sanctionsuicide kind of person, so I'm doubly not concerned. All things come to an end. Hopefully, things happen along the way with you that leave the world a better place.

I know concern about death is a serious thing, but as far as I can tell the solution is to logically think through its meaning

As InsaneCaterpilla notes, for the most part worrying about death is rather futile. The trick is coming to terms with that, which is not something that I think anyone can give easy answers about, but using logic may help.

I'm not that concerned either for pretty much the same reasons as Gen. I'm not into Sanction Suicide, though. I'm not sure what that is. My philosophy is that if we focus on making this life a good one for everyone, we should not be at all worried about death. We can't really know what happens after, but we can do our damnedest to make this world better while we are in it.

I'm more worried about the process than the outcome.

@Men Are Human I think he's talking shoot5 elective euthanasia

Oh? I'm not a big fan of euthanasia, but I do understand where the euthanasia crowd are coming from.

Potential for missue and it becoming an obligation is high.

Hey guys, sorry if this isn't appropriate here but I'm 6 days into starting antidepressants (citalopram). Just feeling kinda grim.

Anybody know when this feeling goes away? I know it's supposed to take a month for any mood changes but I was wondering if the slide effects wear off faster

You may have to ride it out, or it could be you are on the wrong ones. I stayed away from the pills when I was depressed as I didn't want to become dependent on them. You should try going for walks if you can, it may lift your mood

I think you should talk to your doctor.

I've tried citalopram. Like pretty much all antidepressants, they just made me feel numb and weird. Takes ages to go through all the different types and such.

It depends on the severity of the side effects, but if they do get bad definitely speak to your gp. Some may go away with time, but not all of them.

I'm ok with weird and numb. Better than mental images of me bat the end of a rope. I was just quite nauseated. Eating has helped. Doing some reading it says it takes a week to get stable levels. Hopefully I'll start feeling normal soon.

I’m sick.

I don’t get ill often so when I get a cold, im wiped out.

My car was totalled.

Sucks