Message from @James

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2018-12-14 21:11:26 UTC  

Anything good?

2018-12-14 21:26:52 UTC  

2018-12-14 21:28:15 UTC  

2018-12-14 22:54:21 UTC  

oh my gosh!

2018-12-14 22:54:37 UTC  

why do i like boobs so much

2018-12-14 22:54:54 UTC  

ive never even (intentionaly) touched any

2018-12-14 23:06:30 UTC  

never even seen any naked boobs in person

2018-12-14 23:11:44 UTC  

because boobs are great UwU

2018-12-14 23:15:19 UTC  

who else has this issue
Whenever a female streches you stare at their chest and you ussualy cant help it

2018-12-14 23:27:51 UTC  

Hey all. Good to be here. What's crackin?

2018-12-14 23:39:12 UTC  

Evening.

2018-12-14 23:39:35 UTC  

What brings you here

2018-12-14 23:41:46 UTC  

Hi. Came from r/mensrights. Been looking for alternative forums to talk about men's issues. Good to be here!

2018-12-14 23:42:31 UTC  

Oh nice.

2018-12-14 23:42:55 UTC  

There's plenty of channels as you can see

2018-12-14 23:53:32 UTC  

Yes! I'm hoping for some good convos! 😀

2018-12-14 23:59:13 UTC  

Something I've noticed in other spaces is being dragged into discussions about race and other 'intersections' in response to feminist muddying the water. I'm pretty single issue in this arena. If you have y chromosomes you are my brother. Even if you don't but can't live as a woman then you have my support...

2018-12-15 00:00:01 UTC  

Thats pretty straight forward.

2018-12-15 00:00:18 UTC  

The rest of the world supports the xx demographic. They don't need me.

2018-12-15 00:03:21 UTC  

@James Yes sorry, was asleep as you guessed.. Anything in particular that brings me here? Coming across the reddit and finally building up courage to put it simply.. more complex answer would mean telling my life story and family history probably would take forever

2018-12-15 00:04:08 UTC  

Haha yeah. That can happen.

2018-12-15 00:13:27 UTC  

A couple of personal experiences is- growing up not knowing my brother as my father had no rights- i saw what that did to him..also being a trans guy ive experienced what its like to be seen as female and male at different times- in many ways its easier to be female in terms of rights and attitudes (which was not a surprise to me- i knew it before transition really)

2018-12-15 00:15:10 UTC  

did you ever get to meet your father as an adult?

2018-12-15 00:18:29 UTC  

I grew up with my dad- my brother lost contact with him at age 11 or so before i was born, he was my dads stepson but from birth (didnt matter to family courts of course).. he always saw him as his son which he was just not biologically

2018-12-15 00:18:55 UTC  

oh, okay, I see, I'm sorry to hear that.

2018-12-15 00:19:10 UTC  

As an adult he contacted us- he ended up living with us for a while :)

2018-12-15 00:20:09 UTC  

that must have been nice, It's wrong to separate families, and I know even if you do manage to catch up as adults, it can still be quite upsetting for a parent not being able to see their child grow up

2018-12-15 00:22:23 UTC  

Yes it was difficult for him- he fought for a long time in the courts too

2018-12-15 00:23:03 UTC  

Family courts are just flat out unfair, they cause more harm then any good they do

2018-12-15 00:23:22 UTC  

This was England yeah?

2018-12-15 00:24:17 UTC  

Yes england

2018-12-15 00:24:29 UTC  

1980s

2018-12-15 00:25:07 UTC  

An enlightened time I'm sure. I wonder how it's changed

2018-12-15 00:25:53 UTC  

Gagging orders introduced?

2018-12-15 00:26:18 UTC  

That doesn't sound good

2018-12-15 00:26:55 UTC  

(parents involved in family courts now are often forbidden from speaking out in my understanding)

2018-12-15 00:27:32 UTC  

Speaking out on what part?

2018-12-15 00:27:39 UTC  

good luck with that, something that emotional and traumatic, speaking out is pretty inevitable

2018-12-15 00:27:40 UTC  

To children?

2018-12-15 00:27:57 UTC  

Or to public

2018-12-15 00:28:44 UTC  

Public