Message from @Abbysol

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2018-12-17 10:59:28 UTC  

Which ones specifically?

2018-12-17 10:59:47 UTC  

@Longing#5599

2018-12-17 10:59:58 UTC  

Oh, they're gone

2018-12-17 11:05:53 UTC  

I think that explains the one random with had earlier

2018-12-17 11:10:07 UTC  

It's certainly a possibility, though... If that's the case, I would have expected more by now

2018-12-17 11:12:46 UTC  

Probably just lurking through the chats trying to take out of context screencaps

2018-12-17 11:16:18 UTC  

Could well be

2018-12-17 11:18:44 UTC  

Would say to maybe pin a thing asking for them to just chat with us, like actually trying to have a discussion instead of just dropping troll comments and leaving before anyone has a chance to respond... but I’m not sure that they would check the pins xD

2018-12-17 11:20:46 UTC  

Mmm, that would probably just add to any fuss they could cause, though. It's probably best to take the approach of not paying them any mind, and just ban anyone who breaks our normal rules

2018-12-17 11:22:31 UTC  

Yeah, probably for the best, but I feel like if we still don’t get a chance to actually just talk civilly then no progress will ever be made, granted I’ve seen how closed minded a lot of the more extreme anti-feminists can get and I would assume they would be more or less like that

2018-12-17 11:26:22 UTC  

It's unlikely anyone will come here from an anti MRM place that will be willing to talk or listen, but there's no harm in it. The type who come from such a link won't be a moderate

2018-12-17 11:28:44 UTC  

Maybe I am too naive, expecting rationality from the irrational, I wish more people would just stop and listen and actually try to understand where someone else is coming from

2018-12-17 11:30:27 UTC  

So do I :<

2018-12-17 11:32:15 UTC  

It’s why I gain a lot of respect for the feminists who do stop to listen, gained a lot of respect for Lacy Green even though I still agree with pretty much nothing she says xD

2018-12-17 11:33:47 UTC  

Liana K is the other feminist I like listening to, she did a YT series recently about women in gaming that was pretty alright

2018-12-17 11:34:55 UTC  

She even brought up an MR point which fell hilariously flat because she clearly wasn’t overly comfortable talking about it xD

2018-12-17 11:38:32 UTC  

Those sound familiar so I might have heard something from them at one point, but honestly it's been a long time since I had any hope in any feminist. People like the red pill woman I keep forgetting the name of (I'm horrid with names, is it cassie jaye?) genuinely surprise me because it seems like people are too set in their beliefs

2018-12-17 11:40:39 UTC  

Well I don’t agree with either of them a lot, however I respect their ability to listen and acknowledge the other side, also when they can talk rationally about it, it helps to keep an understanding of the other side as well as stopping yourself from getting echo chambered, which is something I would like to avoid seeing what it has done to a lot of movements

2018-12-17 11:42:50 UTC  

I like that within the MRM there are plenty of disagreements and debates still, if men's right's places were like feminist subs for example people would be being banned for dissent

2018-12-17 11:45:41 UTC  

well I strongly believe that if you disagree with something, you had better have a really good understanding of it as well as know exactly why you disagree with it before you start debating it, otherwise you will end up as the close minded idiot just yelling things from a distance

2018-12-17 11:46:57 UTC  

like that debate between shaperio and that guy from TYT, they where each having their own debate, like, they looked like they didnt even listen to the other person they where that disconnected from each other (worth a watch, actually really funny XD)

2018-12-17 11:47:29 UTC  

I don't really think that, but I do believe that if you go into a debate you should do it rationally, try not to shout people down, and be open to learning things as well. Sometimes both sides can learn something from.a debate even if their knowledge isn't absolute

2018-12-17 11:48:00 UTC  

the best debates are the ones where both people come out having gained something

2018-12-17 11:50:51 UTC  

2018-12-17 11:51:13 UTC  

Hello Thalmor, welcome

2018-12-17 11:51:22 UTC  

henlo

2018-12-17 11:51:28 UTC  

hey, welcome ^^

2018-12-17 11:52:01 UTC  

the invite link goes to <#520987662572584961>

2018-12-17 11:52:33 UTC  

from reddit

2018-12-17 11:53:59 UTC  

From the divorcedmen sub right?

2018-12-17 11:54:12 UTC  

no, from mensrights

2018-12-17 11:54:22 UTC  

Oh >.< oof

2018-12-17 11:54:53 UTC  

the link

2018-12-17 11:55:20 UTC  

Thanks for letting us know

2018-12-17 11:55:34 UTC  

welcome

2018-12-17 11:55:50 UTC  
2018-12-17 11:56:55 UTC  
2018-12-17 11:57:27 UTC  

I need an adult, lol

2018-12-17 11:58:27 UTC  

hi i am adult <:GWmythsBlobWaveCool:391322023739129856>