Not much if I'm honest, just browsing the web. Might go for a nice session of simracing, though.

Simracing?

Realistic racing games. Really awesome hobby.

Pretty much the digital simulated version of driving a car

Neat!

So I guess here is the update, her friend hates me, and she texted me this morning but seems unstable after last night, so I have them both set to ignore. I’m not 100% confident, but I think this is the right thing

I think it’s the best option under these circumstances

I mean she ghosted me years ago when we were actually friends which is why we stopped talking so I don’t feel I owe it to her.

The fact that she ghosted you makes it a much easier choice to be honest

You are not required to help anybody. It is not your job, and neither did you agree/promise to it before. She has no right to be upset at you.

How did you end up talking with her again?

I was doing work stuff and she texted me and asked me to call her

Out of the blue?

I thought she was in trouble so I stepped outside and she got on the phone with me and was having a breakdown about something.

Then I asked to speak with her friend (who I knew because I don’t really know this girl) and she freaked out at me, I finally end up talking to her friend asking some general psych questions, telling her she should do something (providing her with crisis lines, call 911 if things escalate, ect.)

She says that she doesn’t need help just friends and she’s sick of being her friend I guess so wants me to do it.

(They were both hanging out together bra and I live like 2.5 hours away)

How long did you date?

And then I say I can’t be friends as my life was falling apart

We’ve never been in a relationship

She has a bf

Someone who ghosted you years ago has absolutely no right to call you out of the blue and expect you to be a shoulder to cry on

He used to be my best friend.

then let her bf do that job.

Her bf dumped her so she got a new one.

Exactly Mush.

She then started hitting on me.

It was creepy af

lmao

Charge for your emotional labor

But no @basedgringo girls deserve support, we need to be nice to them unconditionally

And show our emotions but not have anyone have labor for it

Also girls aren’t to emotional to work in xyz, but should also be allowed to be emotional.

I joke, but I’m an emotional person, I know there is jobs I can not do.

But like I saw this chick at McDonald’s the other day crying because the manager wanted her to stay an extra 30 minutes and she didn’t want to.

It’s got nothing to sow rig gender and everything to do with social acceptance

crying over 30 minutes?

She need to go see chad or something?

30 minutes

Like half an hour

No she “....want to go home this isn’t fun and it’s boring, just let me go home!”