Message from @Deleted User
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We could always ban sex outside of marriage, and punish law breakers, but I think you'd be offended
i would be, plus its ineffective
people have sex outside of marriage whether you like it or not
So alternatively, we could say if a woman becomes pregnant the child is hers. She is not entitled to any money from her boyfriend.
If she wants his financial assistance, she should marry him
the problem is she might want to marry him and he does not
After all, if we are to act like women are adults with the same agency as men then they can refrain from sleeping around and getting pregnant before marriage.
Then she should have the agency to not fuck him without a condom
this is the original problem child support sought to solve
right but he also can *say* baby ill take care of you
Yes, people lie
Lying is not a crime
If you want financial support you ought to enter into a contract with the other person, that's what marriage used to be
Only now the contract offers the man no protection
right but the law sees that as a reasonable expectation that if they then knock the girl up then there was an offer and acceptance
thats a voluntary contract
That's unreasonable. If you want the man to provide you must give him something in return
also men can and do get alimony payments and child support
its more rare, but it occurs
Just like black women getting raped
Has it ever happened? Probably a few times, but it's extremely rare. It's usually black men raping white women
also the providing something to the man in return would presumably be the relationship / sex
its not extremely rare
In past societies the contract was that the man was the head of the household, he gained custody of their children, the wife and kids took his last name and so on
Who is y’all
For his financial service to provide for his wife and their kids, he was given authority
thats not strictly true snake and @Deleted User a bunch of autists
Now women demand free money and men get nothing
typically the wife was seen to have custody of the kids traditionally
Dang
Let’s go beat women then
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being against alimony is gay
*yes*
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I'd play baseball and drink OJ with him.
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