welcome @Serenity

Thank you. 🙂

Also I just want to mention: I find myself getting banned from various servers, every time I run into an issue, people side up against me. And so I've changed my avatar to a female character to see if that makes people treat me differently. But it's not the same obviously. I want the freedom to present myself as a male without being judged. That's why I'm here.

You can definitely present as male here.

So long as you avoid obvious trolly things you're probably safe from gangs.

We're fairly friendly.

Yeah of course

Only people who tend to have gang issues is people who say feminism is the best and men are toxic a lot.

DAE run into this issue though? Where they can't even be themselves without getting banned from server after server, with mods always being prejudiced against them?

Depends on why the mods don't like you, and what servers you were on.

We're fine with fierce arguments and debates, if that was the issue.

Help I am hyper paranoid about people. jk

Hi

Which people are you paranoid about?

Just everyone. Just leaving a comment. I have like a hostile lense on life sorta

So, here to reduce your paranoia?

Wouldn;t mind talking to people who can relate

I basically try to get a rough idea of why everyone is here.

Also I am drawn to the mens rights debate

Even thought I am not entirly in it's scope of concern

Well then, come on in and talk.

lol thank you

If you are also paranoid about romantic partners doing weird things to you, this may be a place for you.

That's our main paranoia.

My concern I suppose is males connecting to each other. A partner has always been easy for me to dismiss. weird as it sounds I am paranoid that all males are hostile to other males unless you join their tribe.

Men tend to be good at getting on well with people if there's a common goal.

A pecking order normally has to be established, but testosterone promotes a belief in fairness and hierarchy.

Well the only way to break my paranoid assumptions is to talk to people I guess. I never experienced hierarchy too much. I think the laws of hierarchy disfavor me... great the more I know the more I want to go

When ever the dynamics of hierarchy start to develop I am the first to be sacraficed in group alienation.

Probaly a good thing since I don;t have PTSD of being beat up.

sorry if I sound like a troll

We're fairly friendly so long as you display beliefs similar to our tribe.

Yeah people are alot more friendly in the Adult Life to me

If you talk lots about how male genitals need to be sliced up say, you would face issues.

If you talk about how abusing men is bad, you'll get friendly reactions.

Yeah that's one thing I can hugly relate on is the lack of attention and seriousness surrounding male abuse

Which i think included male on male abuse.

It does include male on male abuse.

We are against all abuse against men.