Message from @Cantina
Discord ID: 679037148430729238
We're fine with fierce arguments and debates, if that was the issue.
Help I am hyper paranoid about people. jk
Hi
Which people are you paranoid about?
Just everyone. Just leaving a comment. I have like a hostile lense on life sorta
So, here to reduce your paranoia?
Wouldn;t mind talking to people who can relate
I basically try to get a rough idea of why everyone is here.
Also I am drawn to the mens rights debate
Even thought I am not entirly in it's scope of concern
Well then, come on in and talk.
lol thank you
If you are also paranoid about romantic partners doing weird things to you, this may be a place for you.
That's our main paranoia.
My concern I suppose is males connecting to each other. A partner has always been easy for me to dismiss. weird as it sounds I am paranoid that all males are hostile to other males unless you join their tribe.
Men tend to be good at getting on well with people if there's a common goal.
A pecking order normally has to be established, but testosterone promotes a belief in fairness and hierarchy.
Well the only way to break my paranoid assumptions is to talk to people I guess. I never experienced hierarchy too much. I think the laws of hierarchy disfavor me... great the more I know the more I want to go
When ever the dynamics of hierarchy start to develop I am the first to be sacraficed in group alienation.
Probaly a good thing since I don;t have PTSD of being beat up.
sorry if I sound like a troll
We're fairly friendly so long as you display beliefs similar to our tribe.
Yeah people are alot more friendly in the Adult Life to me
If you talk lots about how male genitals need to be sliced up say, you would face issues.
If you talk about how abusing men is bad, you'll get friendly reactions.
Yeah that's one thing I can hugly relate on is the lack of attention and seriousness surrounding male abuse
Which i think included male on male abuse.
It does include male on male abuse.
We are against all abuse against men.
It's really hard to say "We're not punching Bags"
for a lot of reasons
One of them being that someone will punch you for it
We have <#517296790098280448> if you want to talk about more disturbing stuff and vent.
Probably will but I more just want to see the problems that other people need support with and such. Just so I know i'm not alone. I'll check out support thank you.
Good luck then
Gay relationships have the lowest rates of DV, and I can't remember anyone talking about gay dv there.
So, may be tricky to find that, if you want to share stories with such people.