Message from @cookedbeans

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2019-07-09 05:44:41 UTC  

Start trying to just say hi to people

2019-07-09 05:44:44 UTC  

be friendly

2019-07-09 05:44:50 UTC  

you don't even have to hold a conversation

2019-07-09 05:45:22 UTC  

then it'll start to go further if someone says something like 'Hi, I'm great, how are you'

2019-07-09 05:45:32 UTC  

I do that then I feel like a nuisance

2019-07-09 05:45:33 UTC  

and its a really easy way to get more comfortable

2019-07-09 05:45:56 UTC  

^^^

2019-07-09 05:46:02 UTC  

well just know for a lot of people it makes their day better that someone acknowledged them

2019-07-09 05:46:18 UTC  

From personal experience, when guys approach me I like it when they're friendly

2019-07-09 05:46:34 UTC  

I'm friendly to everyone

2019-07-09 05:46:42 UTC  

Even if I'm not attracted to them, guys being nice/friendly are a good way to make a good first impression on a girl

2019-07-09 05:46:48 UTC  

I thanked the lunch lady and sometimes she gave me extra food

2019-07-09 05:46:50 UTC  

Real mvp

2019-07-09 05:47:08 UTC  

nice

2019-07-09 05:47:24 UTC  

Sheep is gonna be your best bet on female behaviour

2019-07-09 05:47:31 UTC  

god I felt like an incel writing that lol

2019-07-09 05:47:40 UTC  

but the way I got women won't really work for you

2019-07-09 05:47:45 UTC  

Lmaoo

2019-07-09 05:47:49 UTC  

so socialization is all I can give you

2019-07-09 05:47:58 UTC  

We all have different traits

2019-07-09 05:48:11 UTC  

@noobypropmaker I know you'll find a girl bro

2019-07-09 05:48:30 UTC  

You also need to learn to pick up hints when a girl is into you

2019-07-09 05:48:31 UTC  

He has a wife.

2019-07-09 05:48:31 UTC  

Like

2019-07-09 05:48:51 UTC  

Women aren't necessarily great at hinting at stuff verbally, it's a lot of body language and naunce

2019-07-09 05:48:58 UTC  

Fuck

2019-07-09 05:49:04 UTC  

Sucks I'm blind then

2019-07-09 05:49:25 UTC  

Wait no

2019-07-09 05:49:27 UTC  

But you have to be kind of careful because some women act alluring/into you and just want to fuck with you

2019-07-09 05:49:29 UTC  

I thought you said that to Kaufman

2019-07-09 05:50:11 UTC  

So either I get baited or it's real

2019-07-09 05:50:14 UTC  

There's a certain *look* that women give to guys when they're attracted to them, you'll pick it up eventually

2019-07-09 05:50:24 UTC  

Alright

2019-07-09 05:50:50 UTC  

You'll also feel a sexual tension sometimes

2019-07-09 05:51:02 UTC  

like its hard to explain, but the air will just get really thick

2019-07-09 05:51:17 UTC  

Also, girls *really, really* like it when you go out of your way to say little things like "hello, good morning I hope you're doing ok!", some small talk that isn't too invasive is nice, and gradually if the girl is receptive she'll open up more and more

2019-07-09 05:51:23 UTC  

yeah

2019-07-09 05:51:32 UTC  

thats more late stage shit tho

2019-07-09 05:51:49 UTC  

I somehow get people to open up to me

2019-07-09 05:51:55 UTC  

Don't know how

2019-07-09 05:52:55 UTC  

You'll pick it up, but women's body language *does change* when they're into you and have sexual tension, it might not be immediately noticable though (things like fiddling around, looking around, looking at your feet/sometimes avoiding eye contact, lowering head a little bit while looking you in the eyes)