Message from @Darkness

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2019-03-02 14:23:37 UTC  

Hmm... That is probably true.
I honestly can't concieve of what a life would be like for a person bad at introspection. I practiced a lot of meditation some 10 years ago in my continual quest to stop the pain of depression and I forgot what life was like before then.
This is a thing Stardusk and... even JP has mentioned... that once you end up away from an area of a bell curve it can be hard to understand how a person on the other end experiences things. (In this case they were talking about IQ)

2019-03-02 14:24:03 UTC  

Meditation helped me considerably.

2019-03-02 14:24:15 UTC  

More than anything else before or since.

2019-03-02 14:24:26 UTC  

I went to China for 6 months

2019-03-02 14:24:42 UTC  

martial arts training, it completley changed me

2019-03-02 14:25:59 UTC  

meditation was part of the exp;erience

2019-03-02 14:26:30 UTC  

I can say, from experience, that breathing is fogotten skil

2019-03-02 14:26:42 UTC  

you learn to breath properly when you exert the body

2019-03-02 14:27:01 UTC  

squatting, is a great way, striking works too

2019-03-02 14:27:06 UTC  

It helped but didn't fix it.
I still had terrible episodes for years afterwards.
It wasnt till about a year or two ago that I finally solved it, mostly by researching and realizing that my goals in life (>_> Blue pill dreams of a happy family life) were impossible and were keeping my set up for continual failure.
After that I realized I didn't need external validation and then poof. A month later I stopped crying in a corner and ripping my hair out while debating if I should hang myself in my closet.

2019-03-02 14:27:37 UTC  

Well, meditation and buddhism helped. Learn to let go.

2019-03-02 14:27:39 UTC  

gdamn...

2019-03-02 14:28:05 UTC  

I was in the military as well, I've known two guys that offed themselves

2019-03-02 14:28:24 UTC  

they were in th emilitary as well

2019-03-02 14:28:42 UTC  

@Kragt I'm glad to hear you tackled that yourself, that's a frightfully uncommon end to that story.

2019-03-02 14:29:49 UTC  

forreal

2019-03-02 14:29:54 UTC  

@Wojak What's your take on the "commercialized" Buddhism getting sold as self-help now?

2019-03-02 14:30:12 UTC  

Yeah @Wojak my problem was I didn't learn that lesson for a while.
Learning psychology and where those feelings came from made them a lot less important.

2019-03-02 14:30:32 UTC  

@Kragt Jung saved my life, too. Not an exaggeration.

2019-03-02 14:30:33 UTC  

Like most things given to you fast and cheap, it's fattening and bad for you.

2019-03-02 14:30:40 UTC  

sometimes you just need to go squat though

2019-03-02 14:30:43 UTC  

@Five, Seven, and Two Depends, what are your thoughts on eat pray love.

2019-03-02 14:30:52 UTC  

getting too caught up in your feelings isn't healthy

2019-03-02 14:30:56 UTC  

@Kragt Seething hatred comes to mind.

2019-03-02 14:31:03 UTC  

go and exert your body

2019-03-02 14:31:17 UTC  

and you get lost in that skill development

2019-03-02 14:31:50 UTC  

you will always win under those circumstances

2019-03-02 14:32:03 UTC  

@Darkness That is symptom management. I am talking about fixing the problem at its source. Symptom management buys you time only. The problem will return if you don't fix it.

2019-03-02 14:32:19 UTC  

^

2019-03-02 14:32:31 UTC  

it prepares you

2019-03-02 14:32:42 UTC  

at the very least

2019-03-02 14:33:06 UTC  

to make the transition more obtainable

2019-03-02 14:33:23 UTC  

at least in my exp

2019-03-02 14:33:33 UTC  

yea, the meditation for sure

2019-03-02 14:33:40 UTC  

I just recommend everyone to Ajahn Brahm. Decades of videos of his talks, very simple, somewhat repetitive, but strictly original buddhism.

2019-03-02 14:33:43 UTC  

I didn't know how to do it properly

2019-03-02 14:34:00 UTC  

we're so distracted it's difficult

2019-03-02 14:34:03 UTC  

Theravadan buddhism works, and with none of the highly religious ritualistic gobbledeegook other cultures added on to it.

2019-03-02 14:34:13 UTC  

Learn to let go, and to be mindful.

2019-03-02 14:34:16 UTC  

Simple is what works.

2019-03-02 14:34:17 UTC  

Tao