Message from @ebowden

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2018-04-18 18:02:37 UTC  

But my father did not want to be a scientist, he wanted to be an artist.

2018-04-18 18:02:55 UTC  

And?

2018-04-18 18:03:03 UTC  

Did he let him

2018-04-18 18:03:36 UTC  

He did end up getting a masters in biology, got through uni mostly on fear and his extraordinary memory.

2018-04-18 18:03:46 UTC  

But he never worked as a scientist.

2018-04-18 18:04:11 UTC  

He has been an artist for as long as I have been alive and well before.

2018-04-18 18:06:53 UTC  

My father never pressured me into being a scientist or an artist.

2018-04-18 18:07:41 UTC  

And I doing a neuroscience degree, which Phillip would have been delighted with if he were alive.

2018-04-18 18:08:45 UTC  

@Seatoast, @Grumplebee My point is that pressuring your child into doing what you want them to do is not likely to end well.

2018-04-18 18:09:27 UTC  

I know

2018-04-18 18:09:44 UTC  

But drama is worse then forcing your kids to do something imo

2018-04-18 18:09:46 UTC  

Cancer

2018-04-18 18:10:20 UTC  

In this world of lies and pretend Drama surely is a good class to take.

2018-04-18 18:10:49 UTC  

Or your kid will be a priss

2018-04-18 18:11:08 UTC  

And cant deal with anything

2018-04-18 18:11:12 UTC  

I was in a drama class, it did not make its attendants prissy.

2018-04-18 18:11:26 UTC  

Good thing I'm going into film then. Great for managing skills

2018-04-18 18:11:56 UTC  

Cant be too careful

2018-04-18 18:12:08 UTC  

Yes, you really can.

2018-04-18 18:12:56 UTC  

With kids, trying to sculpt their life for them like this leaves "too careful" in the rear view mirror.

2018-04-18 18:14:58 UTC  

I swear, it is as if people forget being young in totality. "Yes, when I was young, my parents forbidding me from taking a class would have made me not only respect them far more, but want to take that path far less."

2018-04-18 18:16:17 UTC  

Trying to "nip it in the bud" and stop your children from doing drama is as close to a surefire way of making them want to do it as there is.

2018-04-18 18:16:41 UTC  

Well then at least they have the balls to do it

2018-04-18 18:17:29 UTC  

Or they don't and just take it up in earnest once they are out from under your thumb, casting aside any prospects you may have worked your fingers to the bone to help get for them.

2018-04-18 18:17:40 UTC  

I'm being a nigger to be real I would strongly advise taking an actual class that gives you a skill

2018-04-18 18:18:08 UTC  

Reciting fucking Shakespeare isn't going to give you 30 dollars an hour making pipelines if all else fails

2018-04-18 18:18:50 UTC  

Hard job but that free welding cert can save you if you ever find yourself out of work

2018-04-18 18:20:04 UTC  

Both of my parents have high IQs and advanced degrees, and I did well in school despite almost no effort. If I had a child for some reason, the skills that I would teach them would be slightly more advanced.

2018-04-18 18:20:43 UTC  

They may know it but it dont mean shir until their name is on a piece of paper

2018-04-18 18:21:08 UTC  

Yes, it would be important to make sure they get certs.

2018-04-18 18:21:29 UTC  

Drama is a waste of taxpayer money

2018-04-18 18:21:32 UTC  

You could probably get them a welding cert at a younger age.

2018-04-18 18:21:40 UTC  

Replace it with a financial class

2018-04-18 18:21:50 UTC  

And kids would be far better off

2018-04-18 18:22:00 UTC  

Finacial management

2018-04-18 18:22:04 UTC  

How to do taxes

2018-04-18 18:22:07 UTC  

Write checks

2018-04-18 18:22:56 UTC  

The US education system also desperately needs to actually hammer into the heads of children what is on the curriculum.

2018-04-18 18:23:16 UTC  

And get rid of the "no child left behind" nonsense.

2018-04-18 18:23:40 UTC  

Yeah

2018-04-18 18:23:48 UTC  

That shit is cancer