Message from @Robin song
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true it s too simple of a word
for a different rainbow of meanings
its like the word nice, it doesnt mean anything in particular and varies from person to person.
i don't necessarily think that love is complicated i more think that it's the complexities of the human psyche that complicate it.
understand human psychology and biology and you will understand the idealisation of love.
@GingerSnaps love is not complicated, the reason we struggle to define it is it barely exists in our current society
yeah that's a valid point
it does, but it s not what we define it to be
easier said than done due to the complexity of both on their own, nevermind when trying to understand them as a whole.
Pragma: a model of love as two people may demonstrate during a lengthy marriage.
They tend to select and reject partners accordingly based on what they perceive desirable, compatible traits.
*Pragmatic lovers want to find value in their partners*, and ultimately want to work with their partner to reach a common goal.
it s a chemical reaction in our brain that induces behaviours 😃
its simply based on survival and the protection of it.
To me
@Reaper lel, just looked it up online and we dont seem to have a word for this in french
Yeah, i'm with reaper on that one
oh yeah we do, but meaning seems to be different ...
@Gaarak love your ds9 nick!
like the saying goes, love is blind...but then again, my love for my son isn't blind but can induce very tough decision making processes.
@Gaarak infatuation is like the instant feeling of attraction and being drawn towards somebody without explanation
From French: the little death. *"the brief loss or weakening of consciousness" and in modern usage refers specifically to "the sensation of orgasm as likened to death.*
@Reaper but i also meant, not only passionnate love, even bro-love and the different kinds, it s all reactions in the brain, not something magical and ideal, it s biology
@Reaper i believe infatuation is more based on subconcious wants and needs being fulfilled,without the conscious mind being full aware of their need to be met.
fully
with enough training you can bypass the lizard brain
@Robin song I see that as valid as well
the mind is much like a console
you can program yourself
mind - blown
with a shotgun?
@Gaarak see that's the thing tho when it comes to brotherly love I choose all my friends based on things we have in common then I choose to treat them well, I think only the love of women and love for our children are the only biological ones
with love gun
aww
here u go ❤
@hel you see that with this trans bollocks, boys and girls can be conditioned to be the opposite. But, the catalyst for their biological truth will always try and present itself no matter how much it is surpressed.
@Robin song what you got against trans bigot?
what about technological brother