The amount of effort spent on trying to get back the one that got away will easily be less than finding a new woman and starting from the beginning. For whatever reason that led to the breakup sets the foundations on the relationship that you are trying to bring back, it will always be there and playing on the mind, will what drove us apart happen again.

she'll tear out your heart even worse

@Gabri i can understand that. Yeah i'm with reaper.

yeah I meant leave her alone

so what exactly did she messed up?

@Space wix true

#redflags

@Gabri oh yea definetly get back in contact with her

yeah, those are all red flags.

narcissim is hard to heal because they cant reflect on that

poor guy...

Gabri

you should binge watch youtube videos on healing from narcissists

actually

This is not a mgtow conversation and it's making me feel icky

Misandry Today has one

let me link you

well in my experience narcisstic personalities seldom change

Yeah i agree with roxgor. There's loads of videos about healing, dealing and recognizing narcissists.

can someone send me some quaility hentai

This is just my opinion but people rarely change, they just get better at hiding their weaknesses and displaying their strengths.

If you are waiting for your ex to act right you are NOT going your own way, you need to decide whether you want to move forward or backwards

@Gabri trying to change a woman is a horrible waste of time bruh

but u need a shit ton of professional guidance to change ..did she consult one.. ? to change?

If she even admits she's mean, she might even be proud of it. Do you really want to spend your time on someone like that?

true

yeah sounds a lot like my ex

best bet is leaving her ass behind and move forward on your own

believe me

@Gabri it doesn't matter why you are thinking about her, it's your life only you can choose what you do about it

this is not worth the squeeze

@Trickster no it's not

she is a waste of time, I've seen it with my ex, college poisoned her mind and she turned into a waste of time, abusive, manupulative bitch that was proud when she beat me into submission

don't put yourself through that

you don't come out any better

I remember the promises, we'd be there for each other no matter what, I was there for her in her times of need, but when I was in my darkest hours she flat out left me

there you have it should be suffice to let it go ..ofc she doesnt because there are cases where narcisstic people get their self worth from putting other down

and when I got myself back together she acted like she did good, like she had fullfilled her promise

they are like emotional vampires

female narcissism is actually a fantastic survival mechanism

gotta give it that