Ok drop girlfriend from that list

It has a lot to do with freedom

Alright, I apologise

I still have some learning to do

@themysteriousSage if you can explain how inability to get a gf does not mean you are defining yourself by a woman ill listen

@CappyK He is not going to be popular when he impregnates a thot and gets a beer belly. He needs to quench his thirst with silicone

it wasn't just women

internal freedom, financial freedom, freedom from dependence

Yes but it's a case of external vs internal validation

I know that when you stop worrying about women, and do your own thing, It's like having 500lbs lifted off of your back

I only started this late November so excuse me for that one I apologise again

Imo you're only a failure if you try to enact communism

@themysteriousSage so what youre getting at is the no girlfriend part is a symptom of a bigger problem

an add-on basically yeah but I was wrong

How do you internally validate without feedback though?

Master a skill?

Like example of why internal OS important. I had a coworker jacking me off about how amazing I am not cause I'm actually great but because if I suck they are even worse.

if they are incels well... that's another thing

You're not the only one that needs improving @themysteriousSage I'm in the same boat lmao

Internal means I look and decide for myself isle I am satisfied

🔥

No one can be 100%

External means believing them about how amazing you are

On the bright side I am still very young so I don't have much regret when it comes to the knowledge I now know

but the process of excellence in itself brings joy. That's the whole point of finding purpose

Like I've family who's overweight they always moan at me when I say I wanna get in better shape

nice pp sage

If I was 40 I wouldn't be very happy learning at a late age

It's not cause I'm built

oh yeah i forgot

What you do for a living should bring joy

i have itachi as my profile picture so expect some immaturity

or you could work, then have side things you want to master

most ppl never learn - i wud enjoy learning mgtow at 70

never regret what you've done if you do then it will lead you to not take action with anything which will lead to stagnation

@themysteriousSage that was pathetic

itachi is MGTOW though

That expect immaturity

That's pathetic

I wasn't being fully serious

it was a joke